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Old 11-20-2012, 10:47 AM
 
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And you've made up your mind that a LDR is just not going to work.
What do you do while you wait for their departure... especially if you two are "shacking up"?
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Old 11-20-2012, 10:49 AM
 
Location: Westminster, CO
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I suppose it depends on how mutual the agreement to split is. If it's truly a mutual agreement, then the two should make the best of the time available create some lasting memories. If the agreement is not mutual, then one of the parties needs to get out of the cohabitation as quickly as possible otherwise you'll be making memories of the not good kind.
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Old 11-20-2012, 11:06 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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And you've made up your mind that a LDR is just not going to work.
What do you do while you wait for their departure... especially if you two are "shacking up"?
Enjoy it
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Old 11-20-2012, 12:06 PM
 
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The last time I realized that I broke it off as soon as I found out he was moving. Kinda regret it. I sorta wish we had kept dating and something else had come up for us to break up. Even if we did the LDR thing and broke up because of that.

Now that relationship is a somewhat impossible standard by which I judge current relationships. It's been years since we've even talked and I still think about what he's up to.
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Old 11-20-2012, 04:25 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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And you've made up your mind that a LDR is just not going to work.
What do you do while you wait for their departure... especially if you two are "shacking up"?

Is this the same person whose been the subject of your threads about him not wanting sex or not wanting to do it in the hallway or something or he gets super mad at everything? This relationship sounded like it was over a long time ago. If you're living together and it's not working then just be civil to each other before he moves and simply say good-bye when he has to leave. As long as both of you understand the relationship is over, move on and be roommates. If the relationship is over and he has to stay there until he moves, don't have sex with him. Don't even share a bed if possible.

When is he leaving?
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Old 11-20-2012, 04:29 PM
 
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And you've made up your mind that a LDR is just not going to work.
What do you do while you wait for their departure... especially if you two are "shacking up"?
Enjoy it while it lasts?
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