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So my Gf called me this morning on her way to work. She was running late & asked me to check her bank account. I told her that maybe I shouldn't do that & that I don't want to violate her privicy. She said that she trust me & she gave me the password & such. She did the same with her FB account she wanted to show me she had nothing to hide.
My question is during a new realtionship how much trust do you put in your SO? How long before you feel like you can trust them with such information like my GF did?
That would all depend on how long and how commited your relationship is. Some Bfs I have never trusted enough....some I should not have trusted that much.....but my last bf....who is my husband....we trusted each other that much after about 8mos and a complete permanent commitment.
There is no way I would ever give a SO my bank account info or FB account. I wouldn't even give my husband that stuff (if I had one). We can share a bank account, but the account that's just mine is mine. He doesn't need to know what's in there.
It's understandable if you don't feel comfortable doing the same yet.
I've offered to but she just tells me that she not worried about anything or what I'm worth. Sort of scary seeing that it's a first it is taking some time to get used to that.
I've offered to but she just tells me that she not worried about anything or what I'm worth. Sort of scary seeing that it's a first it is taking some time to get used to that.
When I lived with somebody, he had access to all my stuff.
When he dumped me out of the blue after numerous years together, I did end up changing everything. I didn't think I'd probably have to, but then I started seeing things like my Netflix account, of all things, showing unauthorized activity. So I put everything on lockdown. Seriously,dude? You can't spring for the $7/mo for your own Netflix?
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