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My best friend and I share that kind of info after 20 years of friendship. Never gotten there with an SO, but I'm sure I'd give him my passwords after 20 years.
Ive been dating my boyfriend for over two years. He wont even let me be in the same room with him when he signs into fb or his google account. Dont even get me started on how anal he is about his bank account, atm pin etc.
Ive been dating my boyfriend for over two years. He wont even let me be in the same room with him when he signs into fb or his google account. Dont even get me started on how anal he is about his bank account, atm pin etc.
Well. Both of our facebook accounts are left open, so either of us has the ability to look in the others. The same goes for our e mails. I have given him my e mail password when he was setting a program up on my phone, but I doubt he remembered it.
Neither of us have the others bank info, and unless you are married with a joint account, or SOs with a joint account, I don't see the reason in anyone knowing it. I can see if they weren't able to check something in it and really needed to know and asked the other.
The last time someone had my bank information they took a total of $11,000.00. Now I don't think my SO would ever do that. Not ever.
He was going to get my bank account to transfer money in but really, I don't want him giving me any money.
So my Gf called me this morning on her way to work. She was running late & asked me to check her bank account. I told her that maybe I shouldn't do that & that I don't want to violate her privicy. She said that she trust me & she gave me the password & such. She did the same with her FB account she wanted to show me she had nothing to hide.
My question is during a new realtionship how much trust do you put in your SO? How long before you feel like you can trust them with such information like my GF did?
How long have you been together? Would you trust her with your passwords? If not, why not? I take it as being in the spirit of doing a loved one a favor. Unless you haven't been together for long, I don't see a reason for unease.
How long have you been together? Would you trust her with your passwords? If not, why not? I take it as being in the spirit of doing a loved one a favor. Unless you haven't been together for long, I don't see a reason for unease.
Like I posted above I have offered to give her my passwords to anything she wants, & she keeps saying she ok & that she does trust me. We been together for almost 7 months now. Part of me felt uneasy because no one has been so honest with me before. Like I said I'm not used to it so I'm not sure how to deal or how I should feel with someone being so honest. Don't get me wrong I want her to be honest just is an odd feeling for me is all.
I've offered to but she just tells me that she not worried about anything or what I'm worth. Sort of scary seeing that it's a first it is taking some time to get used to that.
Did you offer b/c you wanted her to know or as a way to reciprocate the fact that she revealed her personal information to you? I personally wouldn't reveal this information at this point, so I certainly don't recommend that you do it.
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