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Please understand that when a man tells you that you're cute, sexy, beautiful or attractive, he generally means it. We don't say sh1t to make you feel better...we say sh1t because we find you genuinely attractive. If you want to deny it or fight it, go ahead, but you are defying logic.
well some people will deny a compliment to appear modest. others think you are trying to get into their pants or they just heard you say the same thing to the busted girl on the other side of the bar lawl.
But seriously, if you were a lady you'd realize how tiring those compliments get. The number of times they hear it, often unsolicited, from random guys, strangers on the bus or on the street, it becomes less of a compliment and more of an advance. Just keep in mind the context of the situation and when it's appropriate to compliment.
So you don't say those things to get in our pants?
Well that's biology *Sexy* / *Sixy*. Look at the flip-side, if we didn't find you attractive, we wouldn't want to get in your pants, dresses or skirts in the first place.
Accept the compliments and ****. My point wasn't meant to be percerted, I was trying to make some of you realize that if a man gives you a compliment, accept it and don't fight it.
Well that's biology *Sexy* / *Sixy*. Look at the flip-side, if we didn't find you attractive, we wouldn't want to get in your pants, dresses or skirts in the first place.
Accept the compliments and ****. My point wasn't meant to be percerted, I was trying to make some of you realize that if a man gives you a compliment, accept it and don't fight it.
Complimenting is an art and not necessarily one that I have mastered. Many (if not most) women are comfortable receiving compliments if they're appropriate to the situation. That said, they're not going to react positively when they're given in strange context or by (seemingly creepy) guys they don't know complimenting them on their looks.
My sense is that most compliments backfire and make it that much harder for the complimenter to have a shot with the compliment recipient.
Well that's biology *Sexy* / *Sixy*. Look at the flip-side, if we didn't find you attractive, we wouldn't want to get in your pants, dresses or skirts in the first place.
Accept the compliments and ****. My point wasn't meant to be percerted, I was trying to make some of you realize that if a man gives you a compliment, accept it and don't fight it.
LOL...it's *sixy*...as in 2 adults and 4 kids, but thanks for that assumption!
It's nothing to do with money or looks and everything to do with social calibration and situational awareness. A comment that may be welcome in a bar, or a cafe or at a meetup, would not be welcome on a busy street, or on the bus, even if the person giving the compliment was exactly the same in all respects.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 11-24-2012 at 03:26 PM..
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