List your main reason for ending a LTR or marriage... (dating, Christian)

[himain]

He put on 130lbs and wasn't willing to do anything about it

[lmw36]

1. Emotional Abuse/Cheating - ended after a year, continued to dabble (trying to get back together) for around 4 years.
2. Chemistry was low/ relationship wasn't progressing - 11 months
3. Ex was spoiled and annoyed I wouldn't spend more money (I was a college student), emotional abuse - 11 months

[intelfan11315]

I ended my LTR due to a complete lack of respect. She treated my like dirt and would tell me to my face she was better than me. The list is longer than that, I don't care to continue it.

I'm much happier as a single man

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by branh0913

Seems like you dodged a bullet there. Hopefully you didn't have kids with him, and at least you didn't marry him. I'm sure that hurts, but at least you didn't commit more of yourself to someone like that.

No kids, no marriage. He actually got engaged to one of the women he cheated on me with and sent me an invitation in the mail to rub it in my face.

We lived together for 4 years though.

[lmw36]

Originally Posted by JetJockey

No kids, no marriage. He actually got engaged to one of the women he cheated on me with and sent me an invitation in the mail to rub it in my face.

We lived together for 4 years though.

Did he marry her? Poor thing. The fact that he is still trying to string you along proves he isn't truly committed to her.

[Rakin]

1. She's a little crazy.
2. I'm a little Stupid.

Actually we neglected after 30+ years to remember who was the most important person in our lives. It's sad to end a LTR with the person you think you'll be with forever.

Also... see #1 and #2 above. All men and women seem to have some of these traits.

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by lmw36

Did he marry her? Poor thing. The fact that he is still trying to string you along proves he isn't truly committed to her.

He's committed to her, they've been together for 3 years now. He just likes rubbing it in my face that he has a 'hot' partner now. It's a long story.

They're supposed to get married this next April.

[Rakin]

Originally Posted by JetJockey

No kids, no marriage. He actually got engaged to one of the women he cheated on me with and sent me an invitation in the mail to rub it in my face.

Sounds like you got the better end of the deal. Pity the other woman... he's cheated on her by now.

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by Rakin

Sounds like you got the better end of the deal. Pity the other woman... he's cheated on her by now.

Oddly, that's also one thing he brags about..that he's never *had* to cheat on her. Apparently, it was my fault

Believe me, I'm glad to be rid of him.

[carlitasway]

1. If we weren't having sex we were arguing. That one lasted about a year.
2. He was a severely emotionally abusive alcoholic. That one lasted about a year and a half. After this one I was done with the jerks and done trying to save people.