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Sometimes, and usually after a few drinks, I have a few friends (female) that will get quite a bit more touchy. I.e: grab my hair, kissing on the cheeks, spooning, couple of instances with very brief hand-holding. I don't want to sound naieve, but I otherwise never notice any other signals at any other times.
I'm just wondering how likely it is for girls to do this just because they feel more comfortable around you, and not have anything to do with attraction?
She might like you if she does it when she's NOT drinking.
I've had guys do that to me, too. Hands all over me while we're sitting at the bar, then the next day they're all, "Wow, what did I drink last night b/c I don't remember a thing!"
Sometimes, and usually after a few drinks, I have a few friends (female) that will get quite a bit more touchy. I.e: grab my hair, kissing on the cheeks, spooning, couple of instances with very brief hand-holding. I don't want to sound naieve, but I otherwise never notice any other signals at any other times.
I'm just wondering how likely it is for girls to do this just because they feel more comfortable around you, and not have anything to do with attraction?
Alcohol, drunk or not, the above isn't completely 'friendzone' behavior. (especially spooning)
It may be, "what did I do last night?! " behavior.
If I was you and you are interested in any of them, ask them out when they are sober. If they say no, at least you know. Just get it over with, don't be sceerred.
Besides, they are sending mixed signals, and if you ask them out, and they arent interested, I would assume they will stop flirting with you when drunk... maybe.
Sometimes, and usually after a few drinks, I have a few friends (female) that will get quite a bit more touchy. I.e: grab my hair, kissing on the cheeks, spooning, couple of instances with very brief hand-holding. I don't want to sound naieve, but I otherwise never notice any other signals at any other times.
I'm just wondering how likely it is for girls to do this just because they feel more comfortable around you, and not have anything to do with attraction?
You've answered your own question. It's the alcohol talking. Don't feel flattered, or take it to mean anything. Men will chase after anything after a few drinks.
I find I'm usually more honest and less shy when I drink, not completely out of my mind and willing to do things I wouldn't want to do in the first place. Guess this is not necessarily the norm.
Yes, sorry, but it doesn't mean anything. I'm a huge flirt when I'm drunk, even when I don't know what the guy looks like. At that point I don't really care, just trying to have fun.
I find I'm usually more honest and less shy when I drink, not completely out of my mind and willing to do things I wouldn't want to do in the first place. Guess this is not necessarily the norm.
A lot of women are flirty by nature. Doesn't necessarily mean they are interested in you. Most likely would be giving the same attention to another guy on another day. Just have to learn to be careful and guard your heart.
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