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Old 01-07-2013, 11:00 AM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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I have. There was this one guy who I dated a few years back who wanted to be in a relationship with me. He was perfect ( base on my qualifications). He's very attractive. Educated (has an MBA). Ambitious (has FT job and owns a business). Great personality. He was everything I was looking for in a guy but at that time I was blind that I didn't see he's worth. I stopped seeing him. Now, I wonder what he's upto. If I can only turn back time. Oh well.

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Old 01-07-2013, 01:09 PM
 
Location: San Francisco, CA
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Email him and see what's up. Maybe he still happens to be single. Don't be so apologetic, just say I was in a different place in life. I have known people who have gotten back together like this. good luck
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Old 01-07-2013, 01:50 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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Email him and see what's up. Maybe he still happens to be single. Don't be so apologetic, just say I was in a different place in life. I have known people who have gotten back together like this. good luck
I don't have any information to contact him. I lost my phone that has his number saved. The last time I talked to him, maybe couple years ago, he was still single.
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Old 01-07-2013, 01:56 PM
 
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That's why you should always take the opportunity when it presents itself. Maybe try facebook?
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Old 01-07-2013, 02:07 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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That's why you should always take the opportunity when it presents itself. Maybe try facebook?
I doubt it. He's not that type of guy who would create a Facebook account. I wish I could recover all the numbers that I've lost.
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Old 01-07-2013, 02:21 PM
 
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No. I have regretted, however giving people a chance who were not worth my time.

Btw let it go. He's moved on, & so should you.
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Old 01-07-2013, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Miami
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No. I have regretted, however giving people a chance who were not worth my time.

Btw let it go. He's moved on, & so should you.
lol how do you know he's moved on, do you know him? sorry that just made me chuckle.

I disagree, though. i do beleive everything happens for a reason, it wasnt the right time. but there is also a reason you have been thinking about him, try a FB/internet search, and if you find him, spark up a convo. if you dont find him, then maybe let it go, i think life has a way of putting people in your path.
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Old 01-07-2013, 02:32 PM
 
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lol how do you know he's moved on, do you know him? sorry that just made me chuckle.

I disagree, though. i do beleive everything happens for a reason, it wasnt the right time. but there is also a reason you have been thinking about him, try a FB/internet search, and if you find him, spark up a convo. if you dont find him, then maybe let it go, i think life has a way of putting people in your path.
From what she posted, actually. She wasn't that into him. If he really wanted to be with her, he'd still be in the picture.
Believe me, men go after what they want. If he's not seeking her out, or pursuing her, he's most likely with someone else by now.
According to her it's been years.
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Old 01-07-2013, 02:40 PM
 
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From what she posted, actually. She wasn't that into him. If he really wanted to be with her, he'd still be in the picture.
Believe me, men go after what they want. If he's not seeking her out, or pursuing her, he's most likely with someone else by now.
According to her it's been years.
wasnt she the one who turned him down? why would he pursue someone not interested in him a few years ago?
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Old 01-07-2013, 02:43 PM
 
Location: Miami
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From what she posted, actually. She wasn't that into him. If he really wanted to be with her, he'd still be in the picture.
Believe me, men go after what they want. If he's not seeking her out, or pursuing her, he's most likely with someone else by now.
According to her it's been years.
no, it sounds like he was a man that had it going on, an she says she stopped seeing him, so he probably didnt see the need to chase, he probably had other options. but that doesnt mean that he is taken now. if she wasnt all that into him, i certainly can't tell, i wouldnt be posting about a random guy i wasnt that into.

he could be thinking the same thing, "she didnt want me", "she dumped me", "if she really wanted me, she would be posting something on the city data forum about me"
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