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Lol. Oh lawdy...
Guys can be so annoying about sex.
I had an ex who would constantly b*tch and whine if we went without sex for like 4 days, which then turned me off even more and I would make him wait longer. Maybe if you stop whining about it you'll get some.
Wow, that's really mean. I'm glad you are not my girlfriend! I feel sorry for any guy who dates you, i hope you warn them ahead of time what they are getting themselves into. I would never stay with a girl who intentionally denied me sex just to hurt me. I don't care if she is the hottest girl on the planet. No way.
I am certainly not a prude, but I find it offensive that faithfulness depends on someone who won't "give him" sex. First of all, this should certainly be discussed prior to formalizing a relationship. If the gf is not interested in sex, or later hits a roadblock in life that renders her unwilling to engage in sex, or just changes her feelings and views, it's not a matter of "how long do I give her."
If the relationship is incompatible, so be it. To assume that a partner "owes" the other one sex is just wrong. I was in two (very different) abusive relationships over 25 years, and have chosen to remain "asexual" for 20 years. Anyone involved with me knows and completely understands that sex is not an option.
You're a white male expat to SE Asia with, judging by your threads, a fascination for glorifying men's power, rights over women and societal norms that perpetuate this, and justifying them with some twisted version of the "natural order".
in what way is this 'twisted'?
Nature is nature, it cannot be denied by PC idealism.
When we mess with nature, problems occur.
you are talking about glorifying male power, when exactly the same could be said about glorifying female power, by creating the indoctrination that her withholding sex (as a power play) is normal.
Quite simply this is not normal, as it goes against male animal instinct.
Why do men have the urge (when young especially) to sleep with many women - it is because their genes are telling them to.
what is so wrong with remaining platonic with GF for a temporary period, getting action elsewhere, and then returning to have sex with GF when she is up for it again?
Nothing, as long as she agrees to it and when you come back you don't give her a disease.
If she doesn't go along with this type of arrangement it's dishonest. Best to just break up.
Should a man be expected to go without sex? - and let's assume there is no medical reason either.
would it be fair for the guy to stay with the girl, but get some temporary action elsewhere to see him through the dry patch?
No, it would not be fair to stay with a girl and get your temporary action elsewhere.
What if a man wasn't giving it up for whatever reason?m Low t? Tired? Whatever the case. It would also not be fair for the woman to get temporary action.
If you can't handle the dry patch and have not met your hand as of yet, break up with her.
OP, I can see how someone would purosefully withhold sex from you with that kind of attitude.
You either want ALL of her or NONE of her. If you don't like the frequency of sex, break up with her and find someone you are more compatible with.
Or do you just like being a whiny baby about it? I want my cake and eat it too...wahhhh, wahhhh, wahhh.
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