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Some men probably aren't clueless, they're just selfish. So this problem persists because:
a) Some women are inhibited about telling their guy he's not satisfying them. Faking orgasms is a phenom that's still alive and well, unfortunately. If no one ever tells the poor guy what to do, how is he supposed to find out?
b) Because women tolerate lousy lovers. If they'd throw them out for not doing their job, things would change. (Or the guys would just come on C-D and be bitter, lol!)
Zero tolerance, ladies. If he doesn't know what he's doing, show him. If he willfully fails to improve his skills, can him. Life is too short to put up with bad sex.
Same for us, guys. Zero tolerance. Life is too short to put up with bad sex, or zero sex, or sex once a month. Can your woman if she does not take care of you.
From experience, the braggers are the worst in bed.
There was guy who kept trying to hook up and would brag about how great he was, how big, how long he was blah, blah, blah...
We were partying and thought ok, lets give it a try, HORRIBLE! as we was doing his so called signature moves,
aka eating at the Y, I thought, what the heck is he doing, tracing the ABC's, haha, are you kidding me, and bouncing like a frickin jack rabbit, I felt like pushing him off the bed.
It was a complete let down, never went back for seconds.
Here is an idea, SPEAK UP. Some of us just need a bit of training. Your parts are a bit more complicated than what we're used to working with. I would also recommend you get planned parenthood or some other women's organization to develop a countrywide program of hands-on, no strings attached, and free of charge training sessions for all the inexperienced guys out there, I can assure you that they would be well attended.
That would solve everything one woman poster said she just wants to go straight to the sex. I know generalizing happens but overall most should just be concerned about the their partners wants and not every other woman. Same for the ladies ask your man what he likes being able to talk is one humanities greatest accomplishments use it.
-Most women never, ever give ANY feedback about anything, sometimes even if asked.
-Believe it or not, women are different. Just because you and your little group a friends like it one way, I can tell you for a fact there's another group of women out there who like it a completely different way.
This is more general advice to women, but speak the eff up about what you want/like/need, and don't sit around passively b*tching about stuff you don't speak up about.
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haha, are you kidding me, and bouncing like a frickin jack rabbit, I felt like pushing him off the bed. 
