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Old 01-17-2013, 10:42 AM
 
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How is it that in 2013, some men are still so clueless when it comes to pleasing a woman sexually? Some of the posts I've read on this board has me scratching my head in disbelief. I don't understand how some guys still try to just have intercourse with a woman without even wanting to please her. It doesn't matter if he doesn't know how, that could be taught to him by a caring and experienced partner. If he's willing to learn, most women would be more than receptive to teaching him what turns her on and how to touch her, kiss her, lick her, etc. What gets me though, is how cold and selfish some men can be when it comes to the act of sex. Their concern is with how good they feel and whether they come or not; her pleasure or orgasm isn't important to them in any way. Then, some of these guys wonder why their woman isn't interested (or has lost interest) in having sex with them.


I realize that there are a lot of men who DO understand the importance of pleasing their woman (mine being one of them ) and that a lot of them DO care about how she feels and whether she comes or not. I don't know...I guess it just amazes me that in this day and age, there are some guys walking around out there who, not only don't have a clue as to the importance of pleasing a woman sexually, but they don't even care about learning how. Then they wonder why women lose interest in them sexually!

 
Old 01-17-2013, 10:44 AM
 
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I am probably the only woman in the world that hates foreplay...I just want to have sex....lol.
 
Old 01-17-2013, 10:44 AM
 
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LOL @ men who struggle to satisfy women in bed


I was basically a pro the first time I ever had sex. Just gotta be in good shape (so you have good control/stamina), be confident and enjoy foreplay/giving oral


Easy as hell
 
Old 01-17-2013, 10:46 AM
 
Location: North of 60
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Originally Posted by brahmabull117 View Post
LOL @ men who struggle to satisfy women in bed


I was basically a pro the first time I ever had sex. Just gotta be in good shape (so you have good control/stamina), be confident and enjoy foreplay/giving oral


Easy as hell

yeah, yeah. You're the best. Maybe you'll meet your fitness model dream girl one day and she'll tell you that you're bad at sex. Boom.
 
Old 01-17-2013, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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Bragging men are such a turn-off...

Why are some men STILL clueless about this?!
 
Old 01-17-2013, 10:50 AM
 
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I am probably the only woman in the world that hates foreplay...I just want to have sex....lol.
Um, you hate foreplay?!

There are probably a LOT of guys on this site who'd LOVE to meet you!
 
Old 01-17-2013, 10:51 AM
 
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yeah, yeah. You're the best. Maybe you'll meet your fitness model dream girl one day and she'll tell you that you're bad at sex. Boom.
Everytime I read some of your posts, they make me smile. Your sarcasm is awesome lol
 
Old 01-17-2013, 10:57 AM
 
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Um, you hate foreplay?!

There are probably a LOT of guys on this site who'd LOVE to meet you!


Foreplay is great, most men I know enjoy foreplay



It turns me on much more than just going in there knowing the girl is basically going to be dry
 
Old 01-17-2013, 10:58 AM
 
Location: North of 60
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Foreplay is great, most men I know enjoy foreplay



It turns me on much more than just going in there knowing the girl is basically going to be dry

You're so experienced. Tell us more.
 
Old 01-17-2013, 11:01 AM
 
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Some men just only care about increasing their "number" only to brag instead of putting in any effort.
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