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Old 01-23-2013, 04:27 PM
 
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Hey! So please bare with me cause this one is long... So, i'm 23 and there's this guy who's 20. He really liked me during the summer and kept me asking me out but I always rejected him...that was until we went for vacation at the same place and got to know him much better...and he really got me!! So I decided to talk to him and tell him I liked him...but then he rejected me. After that incident, he's been treating me really bad..meaning he was playing me, tried to make me think that something would eventually happen between us, but then never did. Also, he keeps trying to make me jealous. And that makes me so angry.....I understand that he could want to get back at me, like a revenge or something...but he wouldn't possibly go through all this trouble for someone he didn't still like. He has showed signs of jealousy too for this guy friend of mine who's always around me. What's your opinion?
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Old 01-23-2013, 04:31 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Stay away from him. What a loser
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Old 01-23-2013, 04:35 PM
 
Location: In an indoor space
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Between you rejecting him and the other guy I bet he feels he's not the number one in your book so hence the treatment.

Not saying this is either right or wrong however.
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Old 01-23-2013, 04:37 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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He's getting back at you over the rejection. Sounds like a temper-tantrum throwing kid to go through all that trouble instead of just accepting rejection and moving on. Given he is 20 it's not too surprising. Find another guy, get away from his Romper Room bulls**t. Not worth it.
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Old 01-23-2013, 04:39 PM
 
Location: Austin
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Hey! So please bare with me cause this one is long... So, i'm 23 and there's this guy who's 20. He really liked me during the summer and kept me asking me out but I always rejected him...that was until we went for vacation at the same place and got to know him much better...and he really got me!! So I decided to talk to him and tell him I liked him...but then he rejected me. After that incident, he's been treating me really bad..meaning he was playing me, tried to make me think that something would eventually happen between us, but then never did. Also, he keeps trying to make me jealous. And that makes me so angry.....I understand that he could want to get back at me, like a revenge or something...but he wouldn't possibly go through all this trouble for someone he didn't still like. He has showed signs of jealousy too for this guy friend of mine who's always around me. What's your opinion?
Run away!
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Old 01-23-2013, 04:40 PM
 
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you're all totally right, I just would like to know if he's still into me with all those tricks he's playing...cause then, maybe we would quit those games one day, he would decided he has tortured me enough and he would wanna be with me..
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Old 01-23-2013, 04:41 PM
 
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Maybe he is getting you back, it sounds like you rejected him constantly,and now it's payback. While I don't necessarily agree with this, I can see why he would do it. As for the jealously and stuff like that, are you sure that you are not over thinking it?
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Old 01-23-2013, 04:42 PM
 
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Hey! So please bare with me cause this one is long... So, i'm 23 and there's this guy who's 20. He really liked me during the summer and kept me asking me out but I always rejected him...that was until we went for vacation at the same place and got to know him much better...and he really got me!! So I decided to talk to him and tell him I liked him...but then he rejected me. After that incident, he's been treating me really bad..meaning he was playing me, tried to make me think that something would eventually happen between us, but then never did. Also, he keeps trying to make me jealous. And that makes me so angry.....I understand that he could want to get back at me, like a revenge or something...but he wouldn't possibly go through all this trouble for someone he didn't still like. He has showed signs of jealousy too for this guy friend of mine who's always around me. What's your opinion?

That he needs to grow up and you need to date men, not boys.
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Old 01-23-2013, 04:46 PM
 
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Maybe he is getting you back, it sounds like you rejected him constantly,and now it's payback. While I don't necessarily agree with this, I can see why he would do it. As for the jealously and stuff like that, are you sure that you are not over thinking it?
overthinking what? it takes some effort to try and make someone jealous...and all this effort could indicate that he's still into me. i have to think about that..
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Old 01-23-2013, 04:50 PM
 
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overthinking what? it takes some effort to try and make someone jealous...and all this effort could indicate that he's still into me. i have to think about that..
All of this effort indicates that he's an immature douchebag. Really. Come on now. This is junior high behavior here. You say you're 23. Why are you even entertaining the thought of this guy?
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