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Why would you only approach women who give you eye contact? Sometimes we just don't happen to be looking in your direction to actually give you eye contact...that does not automatically mean that we would have absolutely no interest you.
FWIW, I'm shy, so I never made eye contact with men I was attracted to regardless of whether they were looking my way/checking me out or not. (That doesn't mean I don't see them though. )
Cool cool, im trying to figure out women still lol
^Aren't we all? I've seen women give looks here and there, and generally my policy is to completely misunderstand what they're "trying to say" and do the exact opposite: so when they want me to talk to them, I don't, and when they're looking at me but not because they're interested, I suddenly feel "fate-filled". It never fails! It's like Opposite George or whatever in Seinfeld when George does the EXACT opposite of what he's thinking, and he scores like crazy! That's how life feels at times (which means I'm a victim, right?).
Anyways, back to the eyes thing.....there are some looks that means he/she likes you and some that just are gazing around the room, but then there are SOME looks that are so unequivocably sensual that you KNOW what's going on.....you just have to figure out if you're willing to take the bait, because the risks (and reward) are suddenly MUCH higher! That's fun stuff, and rarely happens, and I've yet to figure out how to capitalize on that look (you'll know it when you see it -- I believe it's the "she just eye-***'d the $h*t out of me" from Wedding Crashers look")!
Just talk to anyone who interests you. Personally I find it amusing that so many guys wait for signs or eye contact. I usually don't make eye contact or talk to anyone unless I have a reason to, I don't care how good looking you are. So just make a move what's the worst that will happen, a no? At least you can rule it out! Just be friendly and break the ice with a non threatening topic. The last time I was approached I was at a bar and I was watching a game. A guy came up and asked if I was rooting for a certain team. We had a nice friendly conversation. That's what works. I'm not single but that type approach would be acceptable even I wasn't interested. If I was I would be encouraging. Good luck!
FWIW, I'm shy, so I never made eye contact with men I was attracted to regardless of whether they were looking my way/checking me out or not. (That doesn't mean I don't see them though. )
^aren't we all? I've seen women give looks here and there, and generally my policy is to completely misunderstand what they're "trying to say" and do the exact opposite: So when they want me to talk to them, i don't, and when they're looking at me but not because they're interested, i suddenly feel "fate-filled". It never fails! It's like opposite george or whatever in seinfeld when george does the exact opposite of what he's thinking, and he scores like crazy! That's how life feels at times (which means i'm a victim, right?).
Anyways, back to the eyes thing.....there are some looks that means he/she likes you and some that just are gazing around the room, but then there are some looks that are so unequivocably sensual that you know what's going on.....you just have to figure out if you're willing to take the bait, because the risks (and reward) are suddenly much higher! That's fun stuff, and rarely happens, and i've yet to figure out how to capitalize on that look (you'll know it when you see it -- i believe it's the "she just eye-***'d the $h*t out of me" from wedding crashers look")!
I think you should trust your gut. If your gut tells you she liked what she think she was looking at you because you appealed to her, then you probably did. I remember the look a local TV personality gave me as I was leaving a gas station and she was coming in ... my gut tells me she liked what she saw, but that means nothing other than the fact that she liked your appearance. That doesn't mean she's going to go out with you.
I think you should trust your gut. If your gut tells you she liked what she think she was looking at you because you appealed to her, then you probably did. I remember the look a local TV personality gave me as I was leaving a gas station and she was coming in ... my gut tells me she liked what she saw, but that means nothing other than the fact that she liked your appearance. That doesn't mean she's going to go out with you.
No, but you're looking for someone to unlock the "secret" of what something means when there is no such secret formula we can share with you. Sometimes women look because they think you're attractive, other times they look because they're looking at the product display behind you. There's no way to know and even if you do know, that "might" only mean she finds you attractive. That doesn't necessarily mean she wants to give you her phone number, or that she is going to go back with you to her SUV for a quickie!
No, but you're looking for someone to unlock the "secret" of what something means when there is no such secret formula we can share with you. Sometimes women look because they think you're attractive, other times they look because they're looking at the product display behind you. There's no way to know and even if you do know, that "might" only mean she finds you attractive. That doesn't necessarily mean she wants to give you her phone number, or that she is going to go back with you to her SUV for a quickie!
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