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I tend to talk to girls that look at me in the eyes as we are about to pass each other because that is like an automatic go for me. I have nice brown eyes (get complemented on them most of the time) im 6 feet, athletic build and well dressed.
So for you women out there should I just go for the girls that give me that eye contact or try to get those that just walk passed me like I dont exist? I feel whenever a girl gives me that good look I should talk to them and avoid those that dont pay me any mind.
I know some girls put up fronts but I dont feel right If they dont pay me mind in the first place.
Why would you only approach women who give you eye contact? Sometimes we just don't happen to be looking in your direction to actually give you eye contact...that does not automatically mean that we would have absolutely no interest you.
Brief eye contact followed by a smile is usualy a green light to approach, but as someone already said, you shouldnt limit yourself to women who do this. Approach any woman you find attractive, regardless of her noticing you or not.
Just talk to anyone who interests you. Personally I find it amusing that so many guys wait for signs or eye contact. I usually don't make eye contact or talk to anyone unless I have a reason to, I don't care how good looking you are. So just make a move what's the worst that will happen, a no? At least you can rule it out! Just be friendly and break the ice with a non threatening topic. The last time I was approached I was at a bar and I was watching a game. A guy came up and asked if I was rooting for a certain team. We had a nice friendly conversation. That's what works. I'm not single but that type approach would be acceptable even I wasn't interested. If I was I would be encouraging. Good luck!
FWIW, I'm shy, so I never made eye contact with men I was attracted to regardless of whether they were looking my way/checking me out or not. (That doesn't mean I don't see them though. )
Just talk to anyone who interests you. Personally I find it amusing that so many guys wait for signs or eye contact. I usually don't make eye contact or talk to anyone unless I have a reason to, I don't care how good looking you are. So just make a move what's the worst that will happen, a no? At least you can rule it out! Just be friendly and break the ice with a non threatening topic. The last time I was approached I was at a bar and I was watching a game. A guy came up and asked if I was rooting for a certain team. We had a nice friendly conversation. That's what works. I'm not single but that type approach would be acceptable even I wasn't interested. If I was I would be encouraging. Good luck!
FWIW, I'm shy, so I never made eye contact with men I was attracted to regardless of whether they were looking my way/checking me out or not. (That doesn't mean I don't see them though. )
Yeah, same here. I'm not necessarily shy but I'm probably what you would call reserved around people I don't know. I will sometimes talk to a stranger if there's a reason but I mostly go about my business. I notice people for sure but I'm not going to make ridiculous googly eyes at them to get attention.
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