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I have experienced far more in life than I would admit here and when it comes to marriage why marry someone who failed before in the other hasn't? the odds are that marriage will fail so why take the chance?
At your age, it's going to be nearly impossible to find someone who hasn't been divorced. I would choose a divorced person over a super picky stuck-up never married person every single time.
I'm sure when those now divorced people got married, they were thinking the same thing...they took a chance and failed, just as you will if you ever get married.
On the other hand, there are men who are just beginning to look for marriage at 40, after working hard to establish themselves in their career, and they're looking for women around their age with no kids and no divorce. I think IDDY has a shot, but she'll have to work at finding those guys.
On the other hand, there are men who are just beginning to look for marriage at 40, after working hard to establish themselves in their career, and they're looking for women around their age with no kids and no divorce. I think IDDY has a shot, but she'll have to work at finding those guys.
And those guys, if they have any sense, will work at running in the opposite direction at breakneck speeds.
Yes, and don't care. I tell people I'm focused on other important aspects of my life right now and they don't seem to get it. Can't expect a rational response from people that got married in their 20's and never moved around for work.
OP: It's all in your head... start working on changing yourself now. Positive changes in confidence and personality can come from things other than dating, be it a new hobby or succeeding in your career. Don't let rejection dictate your self-worth. Many guys (myself included) were like you in your early 20's.
Yes, and I tell them to **** off, in some cases. And, if they write "certain" monthly checks, I tell them I wouldn't trade places with them.
Great answer, but yes, people do judge. The workplace is rife with prejudice against single people.
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