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My dad married my mom when she was 29 with three kids. Her first husband, whom she had two children with, died when she was 21. The second husband, whom she had one kid with, beat her so she left him. Was mom a bad person for being single with three children at 29? No... she was a good woman. I'm glad my dad married her; otherwise, I would not have been born.
We don't know this lady. We shouldn't judge her. If you're not interested in dating her, don't.
I wouldn't reject off hand, but I wouldn't message them if I saw them online. It would have to be an instance where we met in public or brought together by a mutual friend. Outside of that, likely my answer would be no.
Fellas if you met a 33y/o single mother w/4 kids, would you entertain the offer of dating her.
She wants a man that does not: lie, cheat and can be around for the "good and bad".
How about it? Are you game?
Hmm....a few question first to help me decide:
1. Whats her booty/body like? If she's got a hot body then it definitely helps.
2. The father(s) of the kids, are they around and in the lives of their children? This is important because if a woman has 4 kids, even if they are by the same father and if he's not around and/or they were never married it says something about her character and decision making inabilities.
3. Is she single a single mom because of divorce or is she a single mom because she has baby daddy(ies)?
4. Does she have a career or a job?
These are all important questions to ask in order for me to answer your "Would you entertain the offer of dating her?" question.
She might be smarter than all of us if they are 4 kids with 4 different, somewhat wealthy fathers. I've heard tell of one woman with 4 kids from 4 different men who was raking in the dough. She didn't even work, her child support covered it all.
Now as to the ethics/morals of such a person that's an entirely different story.
In all seriousness, and I say this as a woman, I'd step careful. That's A LOT of commitment to be ready to take on, and the deck is highly stacked against success.
My dad married my mom when she was 29 with three kids. Her first husband, whom she had two children with, died when she was 21. The second husband, whom she had one kid with, beat her so she left him. Was mom a bad person for being single with three children at 29? No... she was a good woman. I'm glad my dad married her; otherwise, I would not have been born.
We don't know this lady. We shouldn't judge her. If you're not interested in dating her, don't.
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This.
I was a single mom of three beautiful children when I met my significant other. I'm no longer single.
However, a person has a right to NOT date or enter into a relationship with a woman or man who have a child or children. But, for those millions of single dads and moms who do have multiple children, that doesn't mean automatic rejection from everyone. As the above poster stated, had his father chosen not to marry his mom who was single with three children - he never would've been born and she never would've found love and happiness.
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