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A bit of background. My wife (I'll call her Ashley, for this posting, not her real name) and I have been married several years. To say we are best friends is an understatement. We have a great partnership and still find ourselves keeping it fun even though we both have extremely hectic schedules.
Ashley recently began running again after rehabbing from an injury. (She's a distance runner). One of her co workers who is also into running and Ashley began running together after work. Ashley and (let's call her, Sara) already got along well at work and we've all gone out to happy hours, etc (when spouses are invited) so I've met her on a few occasions.
Recently, I've noticed a trend in which Ashley has started sharing stories about how (she jokes about it) she and Sara have become work wives. More than once Sara has commented on Ashley's body (which is very nice) and made borderline sexual references. They always laugh them off.
This has been going on for months now and every week or so, Ashley tells me about the latest funny thing to happen at work. She laughs, I laugh and the topic changes to other things that happened in our days.
However, yesterday, she was telling me about her day when she said, "Sara wants me to have a threesome with her and her husband.". Needless to say, I was a bit shocked, though my reaction was to laugh. I asked her what happened and she told me. Sure enough, that's what happened. Unfortunately, a major distraction came up and the conversation had to end there.
Now, the next day...I find myself wondering wtf? Generally, we can talk about anything together. Under normal circumstances I wouldn't think twice about bringing this up again, but this isn't a normal topic.
Should I just ignore this and assume she was just sharing something that happened in her day? Or should I prepare that this topic might be coming up again?
Married people baffle the **** out of me. They get bored and start flirting and toying with the idea of being with someone else. Some act on it and some don't but many of them have mental masturbation. This only works (even tho it's still wrong) when all parties involved are also in a relationship, bored and mentally masturbating themselves.
That said, she's probably not gay but just flattered. I wouldn't be surprised if instead of a woman, it were a man doing this flirting with her, she'd still go down this same path but it'd be a lot more dangerous.
Married people baffle the **** out of me. They get bored and start flirting and toying with the idea of being with someone else. Some act on it and some don't but many of them have mental masturbation. This only works (even tho it's still wrong) when all parties involved are also in a relationship, bored and mentally masturbating themselves.
I don't know...first time poster....the name "Ashley"....I'm not biting
However, yesterday, she was telling me about her day when she said, "Sara wants me to have a threesome with her and her husband.". Needless to say, I was a bit shocked, though my reaction was to laugh. I asked her what happened and she told me. Sure enough, that's what happened. Unfortunately, a major distraction came up and the conversation had to end there.
What about you? She's clearly floating the idea and if you're not ok with this then you need to do a little more than laugh it off, you need to make it clear (directly, no hints) immediately that you can not accept or approve of this. And if you could (something tells me this kinda turns you on) then you two need to figure out the "ground rules".
I'm not getting the feeling that he's enjoying this idea at all. He was never invited, the other husband was to add insult to injury. The person who is mentally masturbating is his wife not him.
OP, I'd say that there's been too much laughter on your part. Stop laughing so much.
Maybe Sara and her husband are swingers? What if your wife proposed a threesome with you and Sara? Is Sara bi? What if it were a foursome with the other couple? How would you react to that?
Yeah I would be weirded out by my ex-wife(while still married) even mentioning that. If I were you I would talk to her ASAP about it before she thinks your okay with it since you laughed it off.
I don't know...first time poster....the name "Ashley"....I'm not biting
Not a troll. Serious question and I just happened upon this forum when Googling. So I am really interesting in what people think.
Thanks.
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