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Old 04-01-2013, 05:15 PM
 
Location: University City, Philadelphia
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... I have had chances to be with girls, have girlfriends or whatever and blown almost every one of them.
Ummm ... that's what I usually do to the guys I date. I didn't know you could do that to girls.
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Old 04-06-2013, 07:03 PM
 
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I'll be 47 this month. Gave up on dating when I was 25. Asked over 200 girls/women out over a period of 10 years. I did the nice guy thing, always was polite, wore nice clothes, expesive cologne (drakkar), always clean well groomed, spent thousands for dental work and dermatologists (almost perfect complexion). Had gym membership and USED IT! Went to college, 4 year degree in MGMT, even bought a house when I was in college, (just paid off the 1st mortgage in 2010 and 2nd in 2012!). But my professional life was a MESS! After only 3 months of graduating I got a job as a manager for a desktop publishing department in a printshop but by March of 1991 my payroll checks started to bounce, left there, got into another printshop (desktop publishing), they went out of business because my boss got into fight with the building owner (his brother in law). At about this point my mother had a stroke in the brain stem and I had to take care of her (I was working 2 jobs at this point), went on for 6 years. She passed mercifully but then my father became seriously ill, had to take care of him since. Worked a number of jobs this time (nothing in management was available). Put out over 4,000 resumes in 6 years and only 2 job interviews, the rest said I was "OVERQUALIFIED". I became so fedup that I found a herbal mixture that would almost stop my libido (sex drive for me was like a white elephant). Like I said in the beginning, I'll be 47 this month, only had a mercy lay to my name (that was at 30) and I've giving up totally. I really wanted to be married and have had at least 2 kids in my life at this point but it didn't work out that way. When my father dies (he's 77, just got him out of Hospice after 18months!) all I want to do is get away and f**k it! All of my aunts, uncles, grandparents and 1st cousins have been dead for years so when I go no baggage at all. At one point while I was in *dating* mode I spent over $51,000 in just over 4 years! I've tried to be myself but like Einstien said,.."the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results"...
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Old 04-06-2013, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Australia
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We all have been through that, I think it is just part of human nature.

I did give up for a number of years after the cheating ex left. Then I had a couple of serious relationships again but for the past number of years I must admit that I am not looking and am not interested in Australian men in general. They are very different to my Minnesotan personality. I am moving back to Minnesota soon and I think I will be open to another relationship back with my American nationality men, yeah!
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Old 04-06-2013, 07:53 PM
 
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I've concluded that life is less complicated if you have a vagina. Until man stops chasing, it will always be this way.
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Old 04-06-2013, 08:48 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I've concluded that life is less complicated if you have a vagina. Until man stops chasing, it will always be this way.
You think it's easy to be female? To be hormonal once a month? Give birth? Maintain sexiness? Shave legs? Have boobs?
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Old 04-06-2013, 08:50 PM
 
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I do wish I were a female, at least then sex with yourself would be fun.
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Old 04-06-2013, 08:54 PM
 
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I'll be 47 this month. Gave up on dating when I was 25. Asked over 200 girls/women out over a period of 10 years. I did the nice guy thing, always was polite, wore nice clothes, expesive cologne (drakkar), always clean well groomed, spent thousands for dental work and dermatologists (almost perfect complexion). Had gym membership and USED IT! Went to college, 4 year degree in MGMT, even bought a house when I was in college, (just paid off the 1st mortgage in 2010 and 2nd in 2012!). But my professional life was a MESS! After only 3 months of graduating I got a job as a manager for a desktop publishing department in a printshop but by March of 1991 my payroll checks started to bounce, left there, got into another printshop (desktop publishing), they went out of business because my boss got into fight with the building owner (his brother in law). At about this point my mother had a stroke in the brain stem and I had to take care of her (I was working 2 jobs at this point), went on for 6 years. She passed mercifully but then my father became seriously ill, had to take care of him since. Worked a number of jobs this time (nothing in management was available). Put out over 4,000 resumes in 6 years and only 2 job interviews, the rest said I was "OVERQUALIFIED". I became so fedup that I found a herbal mixture that would almost stop my libido (sex drive for me was like a white elephant). Like I said in the beginning, I'll be 47 this month, only had a mercy lay to my name (that was at 30) and I've giving up totally. I really wanted to be married and have had at least 2 kids in my life at this point but it didn't work out that way.
My God man! There are WOMEN OUT THERE. You just have to try! Nobody wants to hear about your life story. Nobody cares! Really! Just... just... stop talking and shut up!! 47 is no big deal. It's an advantage! You just have to stop complaining on the internet, that would help. You must have slain a few women in your years. If not, now is the time. It's not too late - it is the beginning! Hell, if **I** was 47 I would make it my mission and in your place I would make it my mission to slay my fancy, if not anything else. Yes, your job is important but its about YOU! Just feel good and go along with it. It'll be okay if you relax I promise!! Oh, and BE CONFIDENT!
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Old 04-06-2013, 09:30 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I do wish I were a female, at least then sex with yourself would be fun.
Hahahaha.
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Old 04-07-2013, 02:05 PM
 
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Hahahaha.

It's true, men get the short end of the pleasure stick. I watch these cams and videos of women masturbating and they are shaking and screaming and I've never ever felt anything even close to that. It's just like meh.
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Old 04-07-2013, 03:08 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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It's true, men get the short end of the pleasure stick. I watch these cams and videos of women masturbating and they are shaking and screaming and I've never ever felt anything even close to that. It's just like meh.
You do realize they're acting, right? Most of them are probably faking it because that's what the men paying them money demand.
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