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Old 03-23-2013, 12:49 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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I had plans to meet someone tonight at 7pm and she sends a text asking can we meet at 8pm because she is behind scheduled.

Plus this is right after her revealing last night that she was living with her ex last month and just moved into her own place.


I don't have a good feeling about this
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Old 03-23-2013, 12:51 PM
 
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dude, chill out. she texted you at least a couple of hours in advance. if she wanted to flake, she would have. that would be more worrisome to me, if at all.
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Old 03-23-2013, 12:52 PM
 
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And you opened a thread on this because????? WPH, seriously?
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Old 03-23-2013, 12:53 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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If your not feeling good then don't go........or go but don't expect too much
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Old 03-23-2013, 12:55 PM
 
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by the way, this demonstrates very needby behavior, you are more likely to tube this potential than you think. get your act together.
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Old 03-23-2013, 12:55 PM
 
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Yeah, lighten up. Just go and go with the flow. It's just a date. Have fun
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Old 03-23-2013, 12:55 PM
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And you opened a thread on this because????? WPH, seriously?

Because I wanted opinions from people on here about the time being pushed back. This happened to me last year and the time was pushed back TWICE.

So far it's only been once. I haven't responded yet but I'm thinking is it going to be like last year if I reply back OK COOL and then in another hour I get a text asking.........can it be 9pm?
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Old 03-23-2013, 12:56 PM
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Yeah, lighten up. Just go and go with the flow. It's just a date. Have fun

So what if I say ok and then in 2 hours she says........."can it be 9pm?
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Old 03-23-2013, 12:57 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Just do whatever you want to do. We can't make every dating decision for you.
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Old 03-23-2013, 12:57 PM
 
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Because I wanted opinions from people on here about the time being pushed back. This happened to me last year and the time was pushed back TWICE.

So far it's only been once. I haven't responded yet but I'm thinking is it going to be like last year if I reply back OK COOL and then in another hour I get a text asking.........can it be 9pm?
You can cover yourself by saying something like "if you are tied up with other things, we can reschedule for some other day."

Giving her an out if she really isnt looking forward to meeting. The last thing you want is to go out with someone that isnt fully invested. No need to over analyze things...
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