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Old 04-11-2013, 08:29 AM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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Which would you prefer....

1) An exceptionally clean and orderly house and a partner who is adequate in bed

2) An untidy and disorderly house and a partner who is exceptional in bed

Also, please state whether you are male or female.


p.s. Do not choose other - exceptionally clean house and exceptional in bed, as we would all choose that!

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Old 04-11-2013, 08:37 AM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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#1.

I would not even consider option #2. How disgusting.

Subsitute SO or live-in partner instead of "spouse" in my case since I have no desire to get married again.

For the record obviously I do not mind cleaning. Just playing along with this topic.
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Old 04-11-2013, 08:38 AM
 
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I'm female. I'll clean the house if he's exceptional in bed.

I'm not sure how the two are connected so that's the best I could do.
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Old 04-11-2013, 08:42 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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I'd prefer to clean my own house to being exceptional to myself in bed.
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Old 04-11-2013, 08:42 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Same as minx. I'm a cleaner and organizer. I need order! Chaos ticks me off.

And who doesn't want some good loven?
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Old 04-11-2013, 08:42 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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I'd choose 2. I don't mind untidy as long as it's not dirty. Besides, I know how to clean and organize if it bothers me, or I can hire a cleaning service. A woman who is exceptional in bed is very hard to find, and if she's also compatible in other ways, she's a treasure.
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Old 04-11-2013, 08:48 AM
 
Location: NY
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Male...

#1. People can and do get better in bed (not universally of course, but a SO who cares is going to try and improve how well they can pleasure their partner). However, I have known very few "messy" people who have ever learned to be tidy.
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Old 04-11-2013, 08:48 AM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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Subsitute SO or live-in partner instead of "spouse" in my case since I have no desire to get married again.
Good point! I changed it to "partner."
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Old 04-11-2013, 08:50 AM
 
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What a stupidly false dichotomy. I want to live with a partner who understands being responsible. The relationship between being mutually responsible for the work of life has exactly nothing to do with sex life.
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Old 04-11-2013, 08:54 AM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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What a stupidly false dichotomy. I want to live with a partner who understands being responsible. The relationship between being mutually responsible for the work of life has exactly nothing to do with sex life.
And thank you for your input.... You are free to create another thread with a truer dichotomy, and I won't make an insulting post about it.
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