Kissing someone you're seeing for the first time (woman, sexy, gorgeous)

[JrzDefector]

Maybe you need to relax? Yeah, it's awkward for a second, but then you key into each other's rhythm and it's all good. Or it's not. But most of the time, you figure it out.

[atgss]

Originally Posted by srjth

Yeah I'm sad that I don't get that great feeling on the first kiss. It just feels awkward to me.

The Italian romantic attitude "amore" muah!!!

Maybe the vibe between you two is too bland.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by srjth

Hmm....I don't think so.
I don't remember sloppy.

Do you not let the emotion take over and think too much of the step by step of the mechanics of it?

[D217]

Originally Posted by srjth

Yeah I'm sad that I don't get that great feeling on the first kiss. It just feels awkward to me.

I suppose it depends on your nature and what you're comfortable with...?

My most memorable first kisses turned into beautifully heated make-outs...lol

Not all first kisses have been that way though...For me it really depends on how comfortable & connected I feel w/ someone.

[atgss]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Do you not let the emotion take over and think too much of the step by step of the mechanics of it?

Yep like the "too bland" part I mentioned in addition of just going through the motions trying to be too perfect and not going with the flow.

That's amore!

[srjth]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Do you not let the emotion take over and think too much of the step by step of the mechanics of it?

No, but I think about how this is a big step and I wonder if he felt pressure to kiss me (because he's usually the one to initiate it).

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by lol-its-good4U

Yep like the "too bland" part I mentioned in addition of just going through the motions trying to be too perfect and not going with the flow.

That's amore!

I got skills. Srjth want me to teach you?


Lmao! Kidding. Sooooo kidding.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by srjth

No, but I think about how this is a big step and I wonder if he felt pressure to kiss me (because he's usually the one to initiate it).

Hmm....I usually sense when to kiss and it happens. I don't think men are "pressured" to kiss women?

[srjth]

Originally Posted by Raena77

I don't think men are "pressured" to kiss women?

I think they do.

(maybe thinking this is my problem)

[glenmorangie]

Originally Posted by srjth

No, but I think about how this is a big step and I wonder if he felt pressure to kiss me (because he's usually the one to initiate it).

Men are simple creatures. Plus you're gorgeous. If he didn't want to kiss you, he wouldn't kiss you.

...But apparently he did!