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Old 04-12-2013, 05:26 PM
 
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I don't mean you're first kiss ever, I mean when you're dating someone, the first time you kiss. Maybe you've had this happen several times.

I just realized that I've never enjoyed kissing someone for the first time, even though I know it is a necessary step. I didn't enjoy kissing them until the second kiss. There's something about the first kiss with someone that's awkward and nothing like I want it to be (like in the movies!)

I also realized that I start thinking about exclusivity once we kiss. Something about kissing makes me feel like we should be exclusive. I mean, who wants to be kissing someone that's kissing a bunch of other people too? Ewww. Either that or if I realize I don't want to be exclusive with him, I stop seeing him after the first kiss.

Can anyone relate? Tell me your thoughts.
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Old 04-12-2013, 05:39 PM
 
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Huh?

You lost me after you kiss and are exclusive then if its the second kiss you now are different from the first kiss but the first kiss you like kissing unless you are exclusive cause if not it's eww to you.
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Old 04-12-2013, 05:42 PM
 
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Huh?

You lost me after you kiss and are exclusive then if its the second kiss you now are different from the first kiss but the first kiss you like kissing unless you are exclusive cause if not it's eww to you.
Huh? I'm lost too now.
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Old 04-12-2013, 05:43 PM
 
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Lol!!
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Old 04-12-2013, 05:45 PM
 
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Yeah I understand you want the relationship to last. Not date him kiss him break up. Date another kiss him break up.

I love kissing. Nothing like his lips on mine. Hands in my hair, mine in his, rubbing his neck....damn.
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Old 04-12-2013, 05:50 PM
 
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I love kissing. Nothing like his lips on mine. Hands in my hair, mine in his, rubbing his neck....damn.
Yeah, that first kiss is somethin else!
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Old 04-12-2013, 05:53 PM
 
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Yeah, that first kiss is somethin else!

Yeah I'm sad that I don't get that great feeling on the first kiss. It just feels awkward to me.
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Old 04-12-2013, 05:56 PM
 
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Yeah I'm sad that I don't get that great feeling on the first kiss. It just feels awkward to me.
Maybe it's the person that you are kissing. I kissed a guy that was very sloppy and I told him!
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Old 04-12-2013, 05:59 PM
 
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First kiss should be a slow connection. Just the tight touching, warmth and hold. Nothing more. That's nice for a first kiss.
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Old 04-12-2013, 06:01 PM
 
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Maybe it's the person that you are kissing. I kissed a guy that was very sloppy and I told him!
Hmm....I don't think so.
I don't remember sloppy.
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