Questions for guys, do you expect girls to be attached after sex? (woman, lover)

[Imdatgirl]

This question is for guys, do you expect girls to be needy and clingy or more attached to you after having sex with her for the first time?

If after sex and girls are not showing any attachments, do you get surprised and wonder why not?

Please discuss. Thanks.

[filihok]

Originally Posted by Imdatgirl

If after sex and girls are not showing any attachments, do you get surprised and wonder why not?

No. I do not.
Most of the time I don't have sex with a woman until after she's showing some attachment.

Please discuss.

Please refrain from telling me what to do.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by filihok

No. I do not.
Most of the time I don't have sex with a woman until after she's showing some attachment.


Please refrain from telling me what to do.

Ahahahahaha.

[Slanderous]

Originally Posted by filihok

No. I do not.
Most of the time I don't have sex with a woman until after she's showing some attachment.


Please refrain from telling me what to do.

That's basically my response too.

[Oleg Bach]

Originally Posted by Imdatgirl

This question is for guys, do you expect girls to be needy and clingy or more attached to you after having sex with her for the first time?

If after sex and girls are not showing any attachments, do you get surprised and wonder why not?

Please discuss. Thanks.

I should hope they would be attached after sex. Sex is the ultimate intimate attachment. If a girl is not attached after sex it would mean that the man was not a good and sincere lover. If it was wham bam thank you mam...most woman do not come back for seconds. The other thing is if the girl is not attached after being intimate it might be because she is damaged goods....and has sex for all the wrong reasons. I don't like the world clingy...sex despite is purely recreational reputation these days is mating...if the mate fits..they become mates. It's normal and natural - sex is a very important act. It's a powerful act of reproduction.

[jaypee]

No, not unless it was in the contract:

[easternerDC]

Originally Posted by jaypee

No, not unless it was in the contract:

haha.

I think most guys would assume that a girl that shows no attachment after sex does not care about a relationship and probably thinks he scored big time because he knows the girl will have casual sex with him and he does not have to worry about any type of commitment with her.

[Rhenzanite]

I think most guys hope and pray that the girl will disappear and never contact them again after sex.

Unless it was decent, then they MIGHT call her again at 2am 3 weeks later and ask if she wants to 'come over and watch a movie'.

[Raena77]

Velcro can be pulled apart.

[Elained10]

The attachment should come before the sex should it not?