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She started all the other threads about her husband and got pretty bad feedback, even got caught by her husband writing here but still keeps coming back.
I think the OP claimed that she was trolling all of us with the "husband" posts, which is why I have my doubts if any of what she writes is true.
The whole marriage sounds like a mess, and both parties don't seem to have any idea how to have a functional relationship.
But I am really surprised at all the posters saying it's wrong to meetup with a guy from the internet for tennis.
IF, the poster is telling the truth, it's a meet-up group, only one person responded for a game, an older guy and she showed the pic to the husband.
I asked DH and he said it would be no problem with him. I really don't get why some have an issue with this.
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Right now he is my life. When I get a job he will have his freedom. I told him that - once I'm working, you can do whatever you want.
Anyway like I said I will tell him that he can golf when I have an appointments like there's a saturday where I have an appointment so he is free to do what he wants that day.
Geez... no wonder he looks to get away. Mommy's always on his azz.
Why should she have to make every unreasonable sacrifice when this guy is causing the problems in the relationship.. Anyway, perhaps she should not be married to this guy. What kind of man abandons his wife when she is pregnant?
I guess you missed THAT trainwreck of a thread. But it was entertaining.
But I am really surprised at all the posters saying it's wrong to meetup with a guy from the internet for tennis.
IF, the poster is telling the truth, it's a meet-up group, only one person responded for a game, an older guy and she showed the pic to the husband.
I asked DH and he said it would be no problem with him. I really don't get why some have an issue with this.
I have no issue with opposite sex friends in a healthy relationship. But I think it could be an issue in an unhappy relationship like the OP describes. She is feeling neglected and disrespected and is a perfect candidate to be seduced by an exciting new man.
And I'm just not buying that all she can find for a tennis partner is a guy. Why would he send his picture if it's just to play tennis? I just get the feeling she is seeking male attention or trying to make hubby jealous or poke him back for him playing golf with his buddies.
Husband says I am being unfair for not letting him golf with his friends. But he also does not want me to go play tennis while he is out doing golf. I will be playing with some guy I met online from tennis meet up site like where he met ALL his friends he met doing his fave activities with.
I also now know why he does not want to have a child ever. His OWN words:
I want to be married but also be able to have the FREEDOM to do whatever I want.
I was like... WTF. We almost divorced. I honestly don't know what to do with him. He also is grumpy. When he is running out of funds for the week. He blames me.
Honestly I dunno if he is an potential abuser because he is a good guy. He takes care of me. Never hurts me physically. He is very loving.
Right now he is the only one working. I don't know what to do with him when he is being grumpy. Like when we were dating, he told me to be aggressive. Now I am being aggressive, he questions why. I mean WTF really? What the hell do you want? That's when he told me the bolded part. I told him well that will never happen.
Also when I said no he can't go golfing he does not like it. And when I finally I said ok I don't care anymore I said yes as long as you let me play tennis with people I meet in meet up site, he also does not like it.
I honestly was not even able to sleep last night over this. I am really annoyed at him.
I doubt he is golfing with random females he met online. Big difference in my eyes.
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