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I had a guy walk up to me as I was walking from the subway to the bus stop after he spent the 10 minute subway ride looking me up and down and winking.
He followed me, grabbed my arm and said 'we're gonna go get a beer right now'. Ok. 1. I was on my way to work and it was noon. 2. Don't you DARE touch me 3. He got an ear full from me and another woman gave me a high five afterwards.
So..don't do that.
As for cold approaching, I'm going to agree with Wry_Martinis friend above... if you're cold approaching me it's more than likely you just want to sleep with me because it's based on nothing but sexual attraction. Not really my bag, baby.
I can't imagine what that's like. I've had guys trying to mug or pick fights with me but at least I don't have to worry about being groped or harassed. I really wonder how these guys talk to their mothers or their sisters.
I can't imagine what that's like. I've had guys trying to mug or pick fights with me but at least I don't have to worry about being groped or harassed. I really wonder how these guys talk to their mothers or their sisters.
I've had similar things happen to me multiple times. Maybe it's because of the tattoos (though I wasn't showing them at the time of this last one) or my size that guys think I'm 'tough' and want a 'challenge'.
I've noticed the guys that 'approach' me are really rough and kind of mean. The opposite of the guys I'm into.
I wish I would get more often approached by guys in public. Not in a rude or creepy way (no touching, following me for a while or staring).
I once had a guy compliment me on my boots and hoped to start a conversation but he walked away. There have been very good suggestions here so far and I would respond to most of them if the man looks okay.
Guys, don't be shy. Fight for what you want and take initiative!
[quote=dub dub II;29479017]"Do you have the time?"
"Hi, my name is ...."
"I'd ask you to lunch, but I'm busy right now..."
"Maybe another time?"
*Remove phone from pocket*
(Always call her to give her your number right then. = No fakes.)[/quote]
disagree. then you waste even more time with her leading you on trying to be nice. if you get a fake at least you know you lost
Is there any way to cold approach a woman out and about? I see many beautiful woman walking down the street in the city, or in the grocery/department store.
Usually they seem to be minding their own business, so it'd be kinda creepy to approach them. Also, in the department store, they are always in the ladies section, so its not like I could "bump" into them.
Any thoughts?
Well, I'd say be casual about it. You must give off the vibe that you are just enjoying your time. If she brushes you off (due to being busy or whatever), then move on. Don't treat it like a big deal. Just approach her like you would approach anyone else. Make a friendly and lighthearted conversation. Make sure you have a friendly and kind expression on your face.
(Always call her to give her your number right then. = No fakes.)
That would make me pretty uncomfortable, it's an overly bold move and an attempt to pressure me into giving up my phone number.
I'm extremely cautious about giving out my number; it's a huge PITA for me to change it. Rather than carry a personal cell and a work cell (which has to be on me 24/7, even vacation/holidays) I opted to merge the two and carry just the one. Yes, sometimes I wish I had separate personal/work phones but I HATE carrying two.
I'm much more likely to give someone an email address, although not my primary personal address.
disagree. then you waste even more time with her leading you on trying to be nice. if you get a fake at least you know you lost
one text and one call. if no reply=contact erased.
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