Dancer Girlfriend Broke up with Me Yesterday (woman, children, feeling)
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Gee, maybe you'll get the message that exotic dancers aren't exactly the kind of people who have the level of trust from a not-abnormal relationship/sex history to really be in a relationship long-term
Watch yourself with this whole sterotype BS. I have been in several long term relationships ranging from 2-5 years. All dancers aren't POS'S..Grow up
I just needed to talk/write right now because I'm hurt. Is that ok? I took a day off and not feeling too well. None of my friends are available to talk to me.
I was broken up yesterday by my exotic-dancer girlfriend, whom I met two weeks ago in her club.
Needless to say, it was awesome!
However, I wanted more, yes, more, perhaps, yes, a long-lasting, meaningful relationship...
The sex was amazing. We made passionate love, our warm bodies lit by the soft glow of apple-cherry scented candles.
We went out to dinner and savored each minute of ourselves, like one would a fine French wine.
We had serious conversations, about trust, respect, our future together, you know, all that stuff.
I thought about presenting her to my parents (with a bit more clothes on).
Going to the zoological butterfly exhibit, to kiss her lips surrounded by the graceful dance of thousands of butterflies, the weekend after she was due to visit her probation officer.
Yet, well, I just got dumped. Suddenly. Unexpectedly. Just like that. I need to find myself she wrote to me on her SMS. I don't know what I want. I really like you and I still want to see you, but I need to know who I am first.
And I am left, alone yet again, with only my tears to console my aching heart.
G.
...Well, sorry to hear about this.
All you can do is move on, now. I personally wouldn't expect that much from an exotic dancer.
No offense, but your post... probation officer? Dodged bullet, my friend.
She may have been scared off somehow. I'm reading your post and I'm reminded of the scene on the beach in that movie called Bedazzled starring Ben Frasier. (I used to talk/write like that myself)
I'm hoping that is not really how you talk to women.
...Anyway, break ups are never easy, especially if it is a relationship that you invested a lot into. You have my support. Do the best you can to find something to occupy your mind, until the hurt subsides. Best of luck.
Its time to grab a fist full of dollar bills and get back on that horse. Im sure she'll still give you a private dance for $20 so all is not lost.
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Dodged bullet, my friend.
