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Old 06-08-2013, 06:18 PM
 
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It's not about the nail!

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Old 06-08-2013, 06:22 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I am a woman, and I agree with the guys.

Why are you telling me the problem if you don't want help with the solution?
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Old 06-08-2013, 06:28 PM
 
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I am a woman, and I agree with the guys.

Why are you telling me the problem if you don't want help with the solution?
Venting makes me feel better. I have to let my feelings out.
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Old 06-08-2013, 06:32 PM
 
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That actress is hot!

I'll get that nail out for her.....

And renail somewheres else. lol
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Old 06-08-2013, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I am a woman, and I agree with the guys.

Why are you telling me the problem if you don't want help with the solution?
Thank you!

I don't want to hear about the problem if it is something that can easily be fixed but you do not want to fix.
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Old 06-08-2013, 06:37 PM
 
Location: The Emerald City
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What? I'm sorry, I wasn't listening....
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Old 06-08-2013, 06:46 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I am a woman, and I agree with the guys.

Why are you telling me the problem if you don't want help with the solution?
It's the difference between male and female communication skills. Generally, men speak to convey information or to solve problems, and women communicate to create a bond. So when a women vents, she wants someone to listen, to express sympathy/empathy, and to let her know that she's okay.
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Old 06-08-2013, 06:47 PM
 
Location: The Emerald City
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It's the difference between male and female communication skills. Generally, men speak to convey information or to solve problems, and women communicate to create a bond. So when a women vents, she wants someone to listen, to express sympathy/empathy, and to let her know that she's okay.
In mens viewpoint, act like a little girl with a temper tantrum. And you women still wonder why we men just wanna "SOLVE" the problem vs "discussing" it?
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Old 06-08-2013, 06:48 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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In mens viewpoint, act like a little girl with a temper tantrum. And you women still wonder why we men just wanna "SOLVE" the problem vs "discussing" it?
There's a huge difference between expressing frustration or disappointment and having a temper tantrum.
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Old 06-08-2013, 07:00 PM
 
Location: The Emerald City
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There's a huge difference between expressing frustration or disappointment and having a temper tantrum.
I have a hard time telling the difference between the two at times. Well, with my EX I did anyway....
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