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Look dude, since you're too young to get it I'll help (I'm 39). She doesn't want you to think she's a dirty blah blah blah and only there to be used and tossed. She wants you to respect her as a woman and a person and actually make some sort of a connection (at dinner) before getting to sex. Does she want to have sex? Probably. But she doesn't want to be the person who uses and is used. She wants to feel like she is at least with a person she knows.
Go out to dinner. Don't slober all over her or make stupid inuendos. Just have a ncie time. Get to know her and if there is opportunity, flirt a little. Be genuine, don't be a douche. She wants to make sure she isn't sleeping with a douche. She also doesn't want to be with a person who will be dissapointed if they don't have sex immediately so just relax and stop thinking so much about sex, there's more to people than that - who knows, maybe you'll actually be interested in some things about her or learn something.
She's cougaring you. The 'I just want to be friends' is first to make you think that she doesn't sleep around, and second to tell you don't expect anything, until she sees you in person and decides if she wants you.
The suggestion of the back rub after dinner strongly suggests she wants sex. So apparently you've passed her standards on the part above.
The 'What are your expectations for tonight' part is semi flirting to see if you're attracted to her.
How confident are you at winning the STD lottery???
She's cougaring you. The 'I just want to be friends' is first to make you think that she doesn't sleep around, and second to tell you don't expect anything, until she sees you in person and decides if she wants you.
The suggestion of the back rub after dinner strongly suggests she wants sex. So apparently you've passed her standards on the part above.
The 'What are your expectations for tonight' part is semi flirting to see if you're attracted to her.
How confident are you at winning the STD lottery???
She's cougaring you. The 'I just want to be friends' is first to make you think that she doesn't sleep around, and second to tell you don't expect anything, until she sees you in person and decides if she wants you.
The suggestion of the back rub after dinner strongly suggests she wants sex. So apparently you've passed her standards on the part above.
The 'What are your expectations for tonight' part is semi flirting to see if you're attracted to her.
How confident are you at winning the STD lottery???
Look dude, since you're too young to get it I'll help (I'm 39). She doesn't want you to think she's a dirty blah blah blah and only there to be used and tossed. She wants you to respect her as a woman and a person and actually make some sort of a connection (at dinner) before getting to sex. Does she want to have sex? Probably. But she doesn't want to be the person who uses and is used. She wants to feel like she is at least with a person she knows.
Go out to dinner. Don't slober all over her or make stupid inuendos. Just have a ncie time. Get to know her and if there is opportunity, flirt a little. Be genuine, don't be a douche. She wants to make sure she isn't sleeping with a douche. She also doesn't want to be with a person who will be dissapointed if they don't have sex immediately so just relax and stop thinking so much about sex, there's more to people than that - who knows, maybe you'll actually be interested in some things about her or learn something.
She said she just wants to be friends to give her an out. If your mannerisms are dorkish in person she can dump you and not feel bad.
She asked what your expectations are because she doesn't want to go out with you with the expectation of putting out on the first meet. She wants to actually go to dinner and get to know you FIRST.
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