He's on a dating website!

[crabman1]

Originally Posted by himain

He's obviously not that busy if he's still actively on a dating sight..Sorry but you need to move on..He's still shopping around

Yep. Don't care how busy he is anyways, he would have found a way to make time if he wanted.

[Delta-SSiPP]

Originally Posted by Missganda

I have an idea what to do but just want some opinion from other people how to handle my situation.

I've been dating this guy for three months now. We're not exclusively dating which is what I wanted now. Before I was fine with our situation just to date and see how it goes. Last week, I've talked to him about my concern of not seeing him often and I said It would be nice if I see him once a week and to hear from him more. He said he would work on it and he seemed to be doing what he says.

What bothers me is, a friend saw him this week on a dating website and he's been actively using it. I dont know when he started using it or if hes been on it even before we met. That bothers me so I told him I don't feel comfortable if he's sleeping with other girls and if that his thing then I will move on. I've never said anything about a friend saw him on a dating website. He says he's not saying that he's sleeping with other girls but he needs more time to get to know me before he can say were exclusive. He says he likes me iand hopefully it can lead to something more as we get to know each other. At this point I'm thinking I should just leave but part of me is saying he's a good guy and maybe he just really needs more time. He treats me well and seemed to be into me. But why can't he date me exclusively? He takes me out on real dates and usually involve dining and some activities. And sex is not always involved.

What do you guys think? I don't need to be lectured and be judged. What I need is advice about what to do at this point. Thanks.

Ok y'all been dating for 3 months, and he stated "he needs more time to get to know you", but he know you well enough to sleep with you. You might want to keep your guards up with this guy.