Agree or disagree?

[ohio_peasant]

Personal insecurities are the biggest factor essentially in ANY worthwhile campaign in life, be it starting one's own business, taking up a new sport, moving to a different part of the country, taking early retirement, returning to school to complete one's degree, or placing oneself "out there" for dating engagements.

Possession of personal security and emotional fortitude are not guarantees of success, but lack of them is guarantee of failure.

[Katnan]

Originally Posted by dave nz

For many single people, who want that to change. Their own insecurities is often the single biggest factor that is their biggest obstacle in their single status changing.

Agree or disagree?

I would say it's their own issues that are the biggest obstacles. It's the inability or unwillingness to look at themselves in mirror, and make the effort to change or improve. People can be lazy, and take the easy way out and blame others for what amount to their own personal failings or issues.

[Raena77]

Disagree. It's finding compatibility.

[bebe182]

For me, I usually experience a lot of anxiety when I start seeing somebody new, and since I hate that feeling I look for reasons to end things prematurely. Not sure what causes my anxiety, probably insecurity.