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View Poll Results: I pick
Drama and confusion 20 21.98%
Boredom 71 78.02%
Voters: 91. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 07-15-2013, 08:50 PM
 
Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
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The real answer is neither.


But, giving this 2 choices, i would NEVER EVER EVER pick boring!!! Theres nothing worse than boring, sorry .

The other day i went out with a boring individual and i wanted to take my eyes off and just die right there it was so bad. I couldnt spend my time with a person like this. I think people underestamite boring or this wouldnt be the winning option. Or maybe the voters are boring people themselves

Yeah, drama and confussion sucks big time too but NOTHING is worse than boring. Nothing.
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Old 07-15-2013, 09:03 PM
 
Location: South-Western New Jersey
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Would you rather be in a relationship with someone who

A) constantly creates drama and confusion with you, or
B) bores you

Assume they are both above average in physical attractiveness.
Boredom. I dont need extra stress in my life.
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Old 07-15-2013, 09:12 PM
 
Location: not where you are
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The real answer is neither.


But, giving this 2 choices, i would NEVER EVER EVER pick boring!!! Theres nothing worse than boring, sorry .

The other day i went out with a boring individual and i wanted to take my eyes off and just die right there it was so bad. I couldnt spend my time with a person like this. I think people underestamite boring or this wouldnt be the winning option. Or maybe the voters are boring people themselves

Yeah, drama and confussion sucks big time too but NOTHING is worse than boring. Nothing.
And I'm not sure why people equate boring to stability. I'm sure some very boring people have some very unstable things going on in their lives just like some drama lovers. Life's never that simple. Now pass me that clever.
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Old 07-15-2013, 09:16 PM
 
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^ My thoughts, niether should ever have to be a choice to settle upon. Having experienced both, I chose the exit sign.

It does become a moot point when you wouldn't have a relationship with either in the first place doesn't it? ***

*** No prohibited words were used in this post.
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Old 07-15-2013, 09:18 PM
 
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Boring = the combination of predictable AND peaceful.
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Old 07-15-2013, 09:22 PM
 
Location: Cincinnati, Ohio
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Boredom, hands down.

At least if you were forced to be in a boring relationship, you could find something else to do with your time. In a drama infested relationship, you're probably spending most of your time dealing with it, taking headache medicine or starting a drinking habit. Drama free is the way to be.
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Old 07-15-2013, 09:45 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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The real answer is neither.


But, giving this 2 choices, i would NEVER EVER EVER pick boring!!! Theres nothing worse than boring, sorry .

The other day i went out with a boring individual and i wanted to take my eyes off and just die right there it was so bad. I couldnt spend my time with a person like this. I think people underestamite boring or this wouldnt be the winning option. Or maybe the voters are boring people themselves

Yeah, drama and confussion sucks big time too but NOTHING is worse than boring. Nothing.
It was a tough choice. But here's how I see it: drama and confusion are exhausting. Someone boring is a lot easier to ignore, and you can pursue your own interests on your own and escape the boredom. You can't escape the drama. If you leave the house and come back, it'll be waiting for you. Drama can drain you. Boredom at least is placid.

I'd climb the walls if I had to deal with either one, but if forced to choose, I'd take boredom. Because ultimately, whether or not you're bored depends on you.

idk. It's choices like this that convince people they're better off alone.
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Old 07-15-2013, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Boredom. I'll entertain.
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Old 07-15-2013, 09:50 PM
 
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Boredom. I'll entertain.
Yeah me too. Heh.

Thanks for playing along to those who played along!
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Old 07-15-2013, 10:29 PM
 
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The real answer is neither.


But, giving this 2 choices, i would NEVER EVER EVER pick boring!!! Theres nothing worse than boring, sorry .

The other day i went out with a boring individual and i wanted to take my eyes off and just die right there it was so bad. I couldnt spend my time with a person like this. I think people underestamite boring or this wouldnt be the winning option. Or maybe the voters are boring people themselves

Yeah, drama and confussion sucks big time too but NOTHING is worse than boring. Nothing.
Boring is the lesser of two evils here. Most people would rather take a third option though.

And I find it funny that you make assumptions about people based on the result of some two option poll. Is it safe to assume that you like drama and chaos in your life?
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