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I pick boredom, b/c it would seem to indicate stability, rather than the instability and unpredicatibility that drama and confusion can cause -- I prefer a potential love relationship to be drama- and confusion-free
If I had to choose, I would choose boredom in the relationship. It would not be boredom with life as I would still have the opportunity to do things that I like, take classes, continue to learn/grow, etc. If he loves me, boredom would be fine. I wouldn't mind him being the same old snuggle bunny day in/day out as he expresses his love for me.
A relationship with drama and confusion would impact my work and other areas of my life very negatively (physical health, mental health, happiness, judgement, sleep pattern, etc.) because I would never know whether I was coming or going. Constantly having to evaluate situations and wondering, "which one of us is crazy" would not work for me.
I refuse to accept that I can't say "NEITHER" because neither of those have to be your reality.
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