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tipitop · 07-17-2013, 05:00 PM

Not in percents then in numbers. That mean cold approach, party approach, club and bars, asking out, asking for date... Women can put theirs numbers but I guess will be insignificant, they seldom approach. I’m between 350 and 400. This is related to another treads of “giving up” in USA dating scene. As USA market is concerned I’m around 100.

Slanderous · 07-17-2013, 05:02 PM

Single digits. I've rarely done the cold approach thing.

tipitop · 07-17-2013, 05:05 PM

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Single digits. I've rarely done the cold approach thing.

Not only cold approach then any other way you try to date or sleep with someone but she turn you down.

Slanderous · 07-17-2013, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by tipitop

Not only cold approach then any other way you try to date or sleep with someone but she turn you down.

Then maybe 15-20, but I'm not even sure if it's that many.

Phoenix2017 · 07-17-2013, 05:11 PM

So far in life, I have probably been rejected from anywhere from 500-600+ women (I'm also assuming that you are counting online dating approaches here as well, though.) Until I was 31 years old, I had a universal 100% rejection rate from all women I had ever interacted with in terms of seeking a romantic relationship with them. After I was 31, that 100% rejection rate lowered slightly to somewhere like between 97% - 98%, as only 2-3 total women have historically ever responded positively to my romantic advances toward them...

tipitop · 07-17-2013, 05:30 PM

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So far in life, I have probably been rejected from anywhere from 500-600+ women (I'm also assuming that you are counting online dating approaches here as well, though.) Until I was 31 years old, I had a universal 100% rejection rate from all women I had ever interacted with in terms of seeking a romantic relationship with them. After I was 31, that 100% rejection rate lowered slightly to somewhere like between 97% - 98%, as only 2-3 total women have historically ever responded positively to my romantic advances toward them...

I didn't count online because any one can send online email, you need not any courage for it. Rather real deal, IRL. If you guys want count online is OK but I don't think is right. I wonder how many times "give up USA dating" guy had denied?

intelfan11315 · 07-17-2013, 05:30 PM

I'm rarely turned down. However, when I approach a woman I have a pretty good idea of who is interested and who isn't after talking for a bit.

Phoenix2017 · 07-17-2013, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by tipitop

I didn't count online because any one can send online email, you need not any courage for it. Rather real deal, IRL. If you guys want count online is OK but I don't think is right. I wonder how many times "give up USA dating" guy had denied?

Ah OK I see, sorry, my bad there...IRL (non-online), the rejection rate for me personally is closer to between 150-250 women

Thank you again for the helpful clarification.

BrunoMars · 07-17-2013, 05:45 PM

Hmm. I'd say my number is around 40. By the sounds of the other numbers i reallly dont talk to enough women.....

tipitop · 07-17-2013, 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Knight2009

Ah OK I see, sorry, my bad there...IRL (non-online), the rejection rate for me personally is closer to between 150-250 women

Thank you again for the helpful clarification.

If you guys want you can state that number too but is really insignificant. At last keep it apart from IRL. For IRL you need courage and feel pain if rejected (actually not me).