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My thoughts, even though I'm a "thicker" woman, I prefer a more fit man. In spite of my curves, I'm still in pretty good shape, I walk, ride bike, ride horses, I'm very active and I'd want a man who can keep up. If you look good nekkid it doesn't matter! LOL
I'm in a relationship though and it's all good!! LOL
If there can be one about ladies...why not about men?
You always hear about the Teddy Bear guy...(referring to the big man).
Does a little fat turn you off?
My husband is quite thin but he works out a lot. One guy I did like was 'big' and teddy bear like..he was taller so he could pull it off.
What is not attractive are big, fat men who take their shirts off...no one wants to see that gut (especially hairy gut) when it's 90 degrees out..
I've dated extremely fit men -- both my ex husband and my long-term ex-boyfriend were athletes with the washboard abs and the cut but not overly-muscled look.
Then after that I dated a rather chunky guy, 6'4" and 260lbs, though because of his height he could pull it off. Now I'm with a career military man, who is physically fit but about 30 pounds overweight at 6'1" and about 220lbs.
So I don't really care if they've got a little extra as long as they're not fat. They were and are all sexy in their own way. I do find that the two chunkier guys treated me better than the first two, but that really has nothing to do with weight. I just chose a lot better this time.
I didn't vote because it's too vague; a man can be big without being fat. I dated a boy that was like 250 pounds but he wasn't fat just big as hell I don't think I can deal with man boobs though. It would freak me out if I woke up in the morning and I saw a plump nipple in my face.
Part if it is my own build (I'm bigger than the average male...hell I'm bigger than most "big" males. ) and part of it is related to my father's build (he's tall & broad = fills a doorway). I tend to go for the power lifting or offensive lineman type build.
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there is something cute and cuddly about a "big man" 
so I must be doing something right.
I don't think I can deal with man boobs though. It would freak me out if I woke up in the morning and I saw a plump nipple in my face.
) and part of it is related to my father's build (he's tall & broad = fills a doorway). I tend to go for the power lifting or offensive lineman type build. 
