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Old 07-18-2013, 07:57 PM
 
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I met this great guy and he's everything I want, but I'm not that attracted to him. What should I do? See if it can work or let him go.
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Old 07-18-2013, 08:00 PM
 
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I met this great guy and he's everything I want, but I'm not that attracted to him. What should I do? See if it can work or let him go.
Apparantly he is NOT EVERYTHING you want.......
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Old 07-18-2013, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I met this great guy and he's everything I want, but I'm not that attracted to him. What should I do? See if it can work or let him go.
haha
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Old 07-18-2013, 08:17 PM
 
Location: Pa
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That's horrible. Poor guy.
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Old 07-18-2013, 08:18 PM
 
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I think you might give it a couple weeks. Things can change (and this is from a guy). I've been very attracted to women who aren't very pretty but they had other qualities - especially confidence - that made me want to be with them.
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Old 07-18-2013, 08:33 PM
 
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yeah. it's obvious he's not everything you want in a guy if you're not attracted to him.
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Old 07-18-2013, 09:41 PM
 
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I've dated guys that I wasn't initially attracted to, but the attraction grew over time. I would give this guy a chance, if you still aren't in the least bit attracted to him after a couple of dates then I wouldn't go out with him again.
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Old 07-18-2013, 09:46 PM
 
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I met this great guy and he's everything I want, but I'm not that attracted to him. What should I do? See if it can work or let him go.
He should be your best friend and nothing more. When you love there is no place for doubts.
However it depends on how long did you know him. Don't loose him if he great guy, it doesn't matter whether he your friend or boyfriend. When you meet a great guy once again ever?
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Old 07-18-2013, 09:53 PM
 
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No... just be BFF's.
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Old 07-18-2013, 10:52 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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To answer your question: Yes, most likely, except he looks like a Frankenstein
Beauty comes and goes, I know great looking guys that with the time became sloppy mess with big gut and no sex appeal.
However a great guy, that is compatible, intelligent, caring, funny, also my best friend, can cook and is handy with tools, can carry a meaningful conversation, have a job and career and is willing to put up with me - now that beats every beauty in the world!

Back to you post - I agree with others: he is NOT everything you want.
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