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As a male, I haven't got there a few times and it was still pretty darn good. So, I can identify a little with the number that can get there occasionally. Many times it's about the trip and not about getting to the destination. Never met someone who couldn't get there from one means or another. I'm sure there are plenty out there but I haven't seen them in my world.
As a male, I haven't got there a few times and it was still pretty darn good. So, I can identify a little with the number that can get there occasinally. Many times it's about the trip and not about getting to the destination. Never met someone who couldn't get there from one means or another. I'm sure there are plenty out there but I haven't seen them in my world.
Yeah Ive been there a few times too. Ironically the female became nervous and obsessed as to why I wasnt cumming. I didn't have an explanation. I was having a great time, it felt great, I had a strong erection, but no climax. I was befuddled by it as well but I was still satisfied. As long as she is satisfied, thats usually enough for me.
I doubt you're mediocre. Either you're trying to be humble or you're just too critical of yourself.
Congratulations though. Many people have dreams of being professional performers and never make it. You have to be something special to make it, and then keep a career.
I miss my job in Los Angeles (Actually it was Costa Mesa, but close enough). I was a talent director for an agency which primarily signed models but we managed other talents including singers, dancers, and actors as well.
No - I'm not a great dancer. I'm an excellent singer. I play the opera cat when I do Cats. I'm not one of the main dancers.
As for the topic at hand - I've never had an issue with not orgasming in any relationship I've been in. If I did - I wouldn't be satisfied.
To get back to the OP, yes it is possible to be sexually satisfied. I have great difficulty achieving orgasm but still enjoy sex very much and do not feel frustrated.
My analogy is that if you order an ice cream sundae and they forget to put the cherry on top but everything else is on it, it's still a damn good sundae!
To get back to the OP, yes it is possible to be sexually satisfied. I have great difficulty achieving orgasm but still enjoy sex very much and do not feel frustrated.
My analogy is that if you order an ice cream sundae and they forget to put the cherry on top but everything else is on it, it's still a damn good sundae!
I can't see the answer being "yes" if this question was asked as applied for men. Men have to climax or it isn't really that good.
What about women? Can they enjoy regular sex without ever (like not even once a year) climaxing?
No, same applies for both men and women. Why do you think relationships don't last? Men are more likely to speak up to help a woman along so he can get there. However, women are not as forth coming. One due to shyness and its not what a "good girl" does, two fear of bruising the "tender male ego." For the record, the guys that say they'd love direction from a woman on how to pleasure them is mostly unbelievable. women most likely have experienced the pouty 8 year old little boy attitude of " don't tell me what to do, I know what I'm doing" BS when trying to give directions on how to pleasure her the best.
Fortunately, of my many complains in life about life, this isn't something I've ever had a problem with. Even with a less than stellar performance partner. My ex had a problem for awhile due to health issues and the meds that he took to treat them, that was no fun and I'd rather give up sex forever than go through that drama again.
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