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Old 08-20-2013, 02:59 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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I think it would be highly dangerous for you to date anyone in the least bit connected with your office. You will lose any small friendship you have with the person who makes the introduction when the "date" (if she even gets to that first date before you sabotage it) quickly discovers all your idiosyncrasies and this in turn may well lead to your fellow office workers totally shunning you. You DID say they were all women (including your supervisor), didn't you?

In some cases it can work out very well and I've seen it happen many times over. In your case, absolutely not unless you're looking for a pink slip to appear on your desk sooner rather than later.

I know that's your dream but it's not happening, SORRY
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Old 08-20-2013, 02:59 PM
 
Location: My House
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I think it would be highly dangerous for you to date anyone in the least bit connected with your office. You will lose any small friendship you have with the person who makes the introduction when the "date" (if she even gets to that first date before you sabotage it) quickly discovers all your idiosyncrasies and this in turn may well lead to your fellow office workers totally shunning you. You DID say they were all women (including your supervisor), didn't you?

In some cases it can work out very well and I've seen it happen many times over. In your case, absolutely not unless you're looking for a pink slip to appear on your desk sooner rather than later.
Agreed. 100% agreed.

If he was looking for a regular old relationship, I'd see no problem with it.

But, he doesn't do those.
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Old 08-20-2013, 03:01 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Actually this is a legitimate stop. A friend of a co-worker? Not so much.



I never married a co-worker but I have done married people things with a few.



WPD whatever, this, a co-worker having a friend you might like to date, is what most people would describe as normal.

On the other hand, trolling Craig's List for pay to play encounters is be something most people would consider abnormal.

Relieving stress is abnormal. In the words of my grandmom................"I SEE"
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Old 08-20-2013, 03:11 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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Does your grandmom know you hire prostitutes?
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Old 08-20-2013, 03:21 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I think it would be highly dangerous for you to date anyone in the least bit connected with your office. You will lose any small friendship you have with the person who makes the introduction when the "date" (if she even gets to that first date before you sabotage it) quickly discovers all your idiosyncrasies and this in turn may well lead to your fellow office workers totally shunning you. You DID say they were all women (including your supervisor), didn't you?

In some cases it can work out very well and I've seen it happen many times over. In your case, absolutely not unless you're looking for a pink slip to appear on your desk sooner rather than later.
Yup. I think we can all agree on this.
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Old 08-20-2013, 03:35 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Make your own choices.
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Old 08-20-2013, 04:34 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Does everyone know something I don't? Like that this is TV&sports guy or something?
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Old 08-20-2013, 04:50 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Does everyone know something I don't? Like that this is TV&sports guy or something?
Yes, he is TV&SG......


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Old 08-20-2013, 05:30 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Does everyone know something I don't? Like that this is TV&sports guy or something?
DING! Blimey, took you long enough!
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Old 08-20-2013, 05:51 PM
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Does your grandmom know you hire prostitutes?


Now why in the world would she know something like that?
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