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Old 08-22-2013, 07:55 AM
 
Location: Geauga County, Ohio
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Another thing I find funny about that post is she has a friend come and cheerlead her on for publicly shaming tons of men she never met. About a thing they can't even control, even though for confident men it doesn't really matter

What if a guy posted a rant on facebook about his utter disgust of fat women. Murder cries would ring out across America.
I'm a woman, and I hate that double standard.
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Old 08-22-2013, 07:59 AM
 
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In order to be successful with women many times short guys have to be super alpha to make up for it, this is where the Napoleon complex comes into play
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Old 08-22-2013, 08:03 AM
 
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if bruce lee can do it so can you. he's my hero.
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Old 08-22-2013, 08:07 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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In order to be successful with women many times short guys have to be super alpha to make up for it, this is where the Napoleon complex comes into play
I think people get the wrong idea of what "alpha" is. It's not this juiced up muscle dude screaming and yelling at everyone, overly aggressive 24/7. That guy is a cartoon character and a doucebag.

So I disagree with the napolean complex. Short guys with that complex come off as tools. But I do agree they need to be "alpha" in the sense that they (we) cannot be needy, must take the lead, be confident, and don't put women on a pedastal. But then again, most guys that are successful with women act that way. I don't really turn it up a notch, its just the way I am. I'm short 5'8, and do just fine
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Old 08-22-2013, 08:20 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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To the OP. Do you even look at online materials to be better with women, or just come here and complain?
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Old 08-22-2013, 08:23 AM
 
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Shortness is not unattractive.

Lack of confidence-dead where you stand.
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Old 08-22-2013, 08:34 AM
 
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I dont think its impossible to fidn love just harder for short guys..and we probably have to focus on more plain or unattractive women i doubt a good looking women with options will settle for a short guy
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Old 08-22-2013, 08:35 AM
 
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LMAO!!! I'm putting that on Facebook. BTW, I am 6'1"
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Old 08-22-2013, 08:36 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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I dont think its impossible to fidn love just harder for short guys..and we probably have to focus on more plain or unattractive women i doubt a good looking women with options will settle for a short guy
Jesus christ dude. Yeah, with your level of confidence even plain jane isn't going to settle down with you.
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Old 08-22-2013, 08:41 AM
 
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Jesus christ dude. Yeah, with your level of confidence even plain jane isn't going to settle down with you.
Oh please stop with the "confidence" thing its such an overblown vague cliche in the dating world nobodies always confident or never confident somewhere in between

Its also not a magic pill likw some make it out to be where women go from eww hes ugly to wow hes so hot because hes confident lets stop with that
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