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Old 08-26-2013, 10:59 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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It's not buying. Its a demand-a prerequisite from the woman who wanted a man. Parents found one and negotiations began, at the woman's behest. Do you get that, or are you dense?

No, not a perfect example. I've never learned about, heard, or seen, or asked out a woman with scars or whatever it is you have. Your attempt at trivializing short guy's issues is quite bothersome.

You DO believe that. Every girl believes or feels that, but handsome, fit, athletic short guys will not even entertain the idea of fat women as partners, whereas fat women will openly seek those short guys because they think they have a chance to settle for a 'depreciated Bentley automobile' or 'foreclosed home'. That is all we are, something to settle for. Look at us as beta all you want. I don't see myself as that and will refuse to consider fat women/unattractive women. Like i said, I'd rather be shot or have cancer.

Fat women can lose weight. Short guys can't grow taller. At least short guys can be super handsome. Fat women will never be super beautiful, by any definition.

And I disagree, fatness will never triumph over fitness. Never.
So... basically your argument (if you can even call it that) is 'I'm right, you're wrong and there's nothing you can say to change my mind so neener neener neener'.

As for 'fatness over fitness', I see it with my own eyes. I guess my direct experience is now wrong?
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:10 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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There's always one or two brand new members that pop up when a 'short guy' thread gets started. I have a feeling they just google 'women hate short guys' or something to that effect and then just troll everything that pops up.
He's not a new guy. How many short athletic handsome entitled foreigners with a string of arranged brides can there be to post on City-Data?
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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I suppose that girl talks like that because she is young and immature. Don't sweat it she is not the only girl in the world. I will tell you this in a sincere way as a short man myself 5'4" I understand how you feel. Honestly I have never been happy about my height but that has not stopped me from living a normal and fullfilling life. To tell you the truth no woman has ever made fun of me for being short so it doesn't have to be something that keeps you from finding someone. Just keep looking and you will find her.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:19 AM
 
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So... basically your argument (if you can even call it that) is 'I'm right, you're wrong and there's nothing you can say to change my mind so neener neener neener'.

As for 'fatness over fitness', I see it with my own eyes. I guess my direct experience is now wrong?
I'm stating that short guys are unattractive, gross, and disgusting, just like fat women/unattractive women. whats wrong with that? Its true.


Fat people can't play any sport the requires stamina, agility, besides eating. Soccer, football (fat linebackers but it will take a month to go around them simply because their fat), basketball, swimming, running, hurdling, hockey, tennis.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:22 AM
 
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I'm stating that short guys are unattractive, gross, and disgusting, just like fat women/unattractive women. whats wrong with that? Its true.


Fat people can't play any sport the requires stamina, agility, besides eating. Soccer, football (fat linebackers but it will take a month to go around them simply because their fat), basketball, swimming, running, hurdling, hockey, tennis.
If you think you're unattractive, gross and disgusting that's your problem not mine.

I've got a list of short guys I'd love to go out with but who rejected me because I was taller/bigger than them. It's their prerogative to not want a woman bigger than they are just like it's a woman's not to want someone smaller than they are. No skin off my back.

And you're absolutely wrong about the last part
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:22 AM
 
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He's not a new guy. How many short athletic handsome entitled foreigners with a string of arranged brides can there be to post on City-Data?
I am short, athletic, and cute/handsome according to some people (but I think I am average and sometimes ugly). It wouldn't matter if I was 10/10 in facial aesthetics anyway because I'm short.

One arranged. The other wasn't. Better than talking to some drunk bimbo in a bar or club.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:22 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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People will sometimes 'settle' so as to not be alone. But that doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you so don't dwell on that. He is attracted to you if he asks you out. Others are resolved to living with their cats or dogs. Older women for example, as you will often here around the internet (whether it is a misconception or know idk), will 'settle' for a 'beta male' before she gets too old or is too old to have kids and must grow up and play with them. Time is of the essence and they can't waste too much time so they could settle.
Lots of women love beta males. This may be incomprehensible to you, but to them, a beta is a prime catch. If you want to truly understand life and women, you need to leave the cliches behind.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:25 AM
 
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I suppose that girl talks like that because she is young and immature. Don't sweat it she is not the only girl in the world. I will tell you this in a sincere way as a short man myself 5'4" I understand how you feel. Honestly I have never been happy about my height but that has not stopped me from living a normal and fullfilling life. To tell you the truth no woman has ever made fun of me for being short so it doesn't have to be something that keeps you from finding someone. Just keep looking and you will find her.
Losing my hair bro. I'm already 28. Im good at writing stories, art, playing soccer, cars, and history. Those things keep me numb. maybe someday.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:26 AM
 
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My brother is super short. He is married to a woman who is gorgeous, smart, funny and awesome. And stands a whole head taller than he.

I don't see what is gained by this sort of complaint. You cannot change your height.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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Losing my hair bro. I'm already 28. Im good at writing stories, art, playing soccer, cars, and history. Those things keep me numb. maybe someday.
Yeah I.feel you my hair has been thinning since I was 23. It sucks but oh well. I make up for my lack of height in other ways.
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