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Old 08-26-2013, 10:18 PM
 
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My buddy is way too nice to girls. He becomes their shoulder to cry on and best friend, and thinks this is the way into their pants.

Is there any hope for him?
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Old 08-26-2013, 10:25 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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My buddy is way too nice to girls. He becomes their shoulder to cry on and best friend, and thinks this is the way into their pants.

Is there any hope for him?
Yes, I know guys like that. They have no problems getting laid.
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Old 08-26-2013, 10:26 PM
 
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Attraction is not usually something that starts with un-attraction and grows over time. It can happen, but it's unusual.

Also, girls can pick up on a guy who truly wants friendship vs. one with a secret agenda. They are creeped out by the secret agenda guys, even if they can't name what exactly turns them off.

He will have much more success if he can learn to be open and honest.
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Old 08-26-2013, 10:35 PM
 
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Yes, I know guys like that. They have no problems getting laid.
he told me he's a virgin
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Old 08-26-2013, 10:36 PM
 
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Attraction is not usually something that starts with un-attraction and grows over time. It can happen, but it's unusual.

Also, girls can pick up on a guy who truly wants friendship vs. one with a secret agenda. They are creeped out by the secret agenda guys, even if they can't name what exactly turns them off.

He will have much more success if he can learn to be open and honest.
it seems fake to me, but im not a girl, so i can't really say.
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Old 08-26-2013, 10:38 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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he told me he's a virgin
That is too bad. Tell him to keep on trying.
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Old 08-26-2013, 10:39 PM
 
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That is too bad. Tell him to keep on trying.
i don't think what he's doing now is the right course of action.

just the other day he asked a girl out, and she basically said no.

he's a handsome guy, too.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:00 PM
 
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this isn't true. there is a happy medium i have found.
Yes that is true but at the end of day being nice too woman will not win them over.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:03 PM
 
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Not sure, just looking for opinions. If you don't like it, don't reply.
He needs a woman to hurt him so he can see what being nice to girls really does.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:09 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Hookers are a good option for your friend. Much less hassle and drama and you are guaranteed to get laid.
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