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Old 09-23-2013, 11:41 AM
 
Location: Gaston, South Carolina
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OP;

Why did you leave your banking stuff up? That was the first thing I wanted to know about the post. the second was Mod cut: off topic. The third was if you really liked tis girl to begin with. The truth is only you can answer the question of where you should go from here. Off topic.

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Old 09-23-2013, 11:47 AM
 
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Been dating her for about three months.

Past month, she hasn't been affectionate/ PDA went down/acting distant/getting easily annoyed

I figured, things were coming to an end with her.

Last friday, i left open my bank account on my laptop, she saw it and was very surprised by it. Asked me a bunch of questions,etc.

Past two days, she reaches for my hand/cuddles at night and day/constantly calling me baby/ which never happened for the past month.
Last night, she said "i love you" 3 times while we were drinking.

I feel like she's playing her cards. Right now she has like $9k in student loans she needs to pay off.

Im afraid if she asks for the money, its going to be the end with her.
K. First of all. 5500 bucks is not "quite a bit of money" ....
 
Old 09-23-2013, 11:48 AM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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Is it possible she thought you were a deadbeat with no future, so she was planning accordingly, but now realizes you could be a decent partner?
 
Old 09-23-2013, 11:49 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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How i saved it up
how she would stop working if she had all that money
Saying how shes proud of me

Its just that the behavior from the past month is not reflecting her sudden change im seeing
Three months isn't very long. If the affection and attention are back and you're happy with it, enjoy them. If she's the type who will expect you to spend a lot of money on her, she'll let you know before her bills are due. Wanting you to take her shopping, hinting hard about a cute purse she can't afford, admiring a new phone, suggesting expensive restaurants she never mentioned before, things like that. I wouldn't try to read her mind and break up with her over something you're not sure she's going to do yet.
 
Old 09-23-2013, 11:54 AM
 
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Master manipulator keeps the bank account open. Don't complain, brah, you knew what you were getting into.
 
Old 09-23-2013, 01:27 PM
 
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K. First of all. 5500 bucks is not "quite a bit of money" ....
Seriously. OP has a loose grasp here.
 
Old 09-23-2013, 01:41 PM
 
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clearly she is going to be asking her for money soon
do not under any circumstances give her anything
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