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Past month, she hasn't been affectionate/ PDA went down/acting distant/getting easily annoyed
I figured, things were coming to an end with her.
Last friday, i left open my bank account on my laptop, she saw it and was very surprised by it. Asked me a bunch of questions,etc.
Past two days, she reaches for my hand/cuddles at night and day/constantly calling me baby/ which never happened for the past month.
Last night, she said "i love you" 3 times while we were drinking.
I feel like she's playing her cards. Right now she has like $9k in student loans she needs to pay off.
Im afraid if she asks for the money, its going to be the end with her.
I wouldn't say to put on your shoes and start running just yet, but I sure as heck be ready to do that in a heartbeat. Next time she acts distant in the way you describe, I would ask her why and try to get an answer out of her and if she isn't completely upfront, forward and honest, then I would be blunt with her and tell her everything you have posted here.
If she changes her ways, great, if not, its time to move on.
And let me say that, despite what some women (many whom post here a lot) say, a woman who is solely with a man for his money is JUST AS BAD as a guy who is solely after a woman purely for sex and nothing more.
Well, seems obvious to me. Seems obvious to you, too.
3 options:
Give her the money and then get dumped a few weeks/months later
Don't give her the money and get dumped right away
Offer her the money and laugh at her when she gets happy about it (that would be my choice)
Seems like no matter which you choose, you guys will go separate ways after that conversation. The question is only, will you be out of $9k or not.
I would not wait until she asks I would put her on my old girlfriend list and move on as fast as possible.
Females like her give real women a bad reputation.
As far as the questions go, your finances are none of her business and what was she doing using your computer without asking? She was snooping and I would be curious what else she has gone through while you were asleep or in the shower.
Like I said, a women after a guys money is as bad as a guy after a woman solely for sex
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