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I went out on a date with a cute guy on Thursday night. We had alot of fun. He gave me alot of compliments and said " im perfect". He texts me everyday. He has something going on with his family, his brother is in a hospital for a lung transplant. He said that he told his brother about me that Im very cool and pretty. Anyway, we made plans on Thursday to hang out tonight. Last night, when we were texting he said that he wanted to see me and confirmed our plans for tonight. He texted me today cancelling our plans because he said his brother is discharging from the hospital today but wanted to let me know early so I can make other plans. He also said that he cant wait to see me again. I talked to him this morning but didnt say anything about it. I got the text to cancell around noon. I replied saying "ok no worries". Is this guy a flake or am I just overanalyzing? He seemed really into me. Our date lasted for 6 hours.
It's always possible that the whole lung transplant thing is a lie. But if it's real, he's probably incredibly distracted right now. Impressive that he even texted you!
It's always possible that the whole lung transplant thing is a lie. But if it's real, he's probably incredibly distracted right now. Impressive that he even texted you!
I find it odd and cruel someone would even suggest it wasn't real or legit.
I would assume nothing less than it was in fact an "emergency".
It's always possible that the whole lung transplant thing is a lie. But if it's real, he's probably incredibly distracted right now. Impressive that he even texted you!
He told me his brother had a lung transplant and staying at the hospital before we went on a our first date. He said hes mind is pretty occupied because of that. He is close to his brother. But today he said hes brother is being discharge from the hospital and the first night out of the hospital he has to be with his brother. He is a nurse btw.
Just to clarify, the brother had the transplant already but had to stay at the hospital for observation. He cancelled our date for tonight because the brother is getting discharged today. Thursday night, on our first date we made plans to see each other tonight. We confirmed it last night. He texted me this morning and didnt mention anything about cancelling. Around noon is when he said he couldnt make it. Also, he always initiates our commmunication.
I have to admit, I'm a bit confused. Why would you think someone is a flake for canceling a date when his brother is being discharged from the hospital after having a lung transplant?
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