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Okay, so you say you look good and this is a problem dating. Approach and interact with women as if you are not good looking. What do I mean? Get over yourself and showcase the qualities that make you the awesome person that you are. This has nothing to do with your looks. Perhaps you are transferring your "awareness" of your good looks to others. While people can be intimidated by extremely attractive people they are shy/intimidated by people who bask in their good looks rather than appearing to be genuinely interested in the person they seek to know.
They may not be confident but your awareness of your good looks might also be the problem. Everyone sparks to a warm person with a friendly, easy going, personality. Next time you are interested in someone, who you feel is intimidated by you, simply walk by behind her.....tap her on the opposite shoulder away from you and say "peek a boo....I see you." I know this sounds silly but if you are a real person, not stuck on yourself or your looks, approaches like this break the ice and put all parties at ease.
This approach beats the "handsome guy" who's so stuck on himself that you say to yourself as a woman "he's handsome but there's no room for me in his mirror and he thinks he's God's gift to the world."
Ok, the above post perfectly illustrates the preconceived notions that people have when it comes to very attractive people. Everything you just said assumes that I'm the one who is "self absorbed" "basking in my good looks" and "stuck on myself." How am I even supposed to strike up a conversation when this is how you already think about me? You see my dilemma now, right?
This isn't a joke, guys. I'm 100% serious. I'm a super sweet guy but women rarely get a chance to know me because they're too intimidated by my looks to get close to me.
Nope Nope Nope. A super sweet guy who is good looking? I don't buy it...unless your personality is not developed because you've gotten by on your looks, I cannot imagine ...
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