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Old 07-23-2013, 07:59 AM
 
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I can't see the answer being "yes" if this question was asked as applied for men. Men have to climax or it isn't really that good.

What about women? Can they enjoy regular sex without ever (like not even once a year) climaxing?
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Old 07-23-2013, 08:06 AM
 
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Never climaxing? No.

However, there are times where I've had sex without climaxing and it was still enjoyable. If that happened all the time I would imagine it would get a bit frustrating.
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Old 07-23-2013, 08:16 AM
 
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Never climaxing? I have a close friend who is now a female sex therapist and she is adamant that yes women can be sexually satisfied.

Why is that? Because they don't know the feeling of orgasm to compare it to.

Now for women who CAN climax but rarely do, they are less likely to feel satisfied because their minds and bodies know what an orgasm feels like and yearns to repeat that level of pleasure.

And 99% of it (the ability to orgasm) is in their head.

She also told me about a colleague of hers who treats women who have either never had an orgasm, or rarely have orgasms, with hypnosis. In almost every case, the hypnotist can cause the patient to have multiple orgasms within minutes - proving that the body is capable but the conscious mind is not (without therapy)
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Old 07-23-2013, 08:35 AM
 
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Never climaxing? I have a close friend who is now a female sex therapist and she is adamant that yes women can be sexually satisfied.

Why is that? Because they don't know the feeling of orgasm to compare it to.

Now for women who CAN climax but rarely do, they are less likely to feel satisfied because their minds and bodies know what an orgasm feels like and yearns to repeat that level of pleasure.

And 99% of it (the ability to orgasm) is in their head.

She also told me about a colleague of hers who treats women who have either never had an orgasm, or rarely have orgasms, with hypnosis. In almost every case, the hypnotist can cause the patient to have multiple orgasms within minutes - proving that the body is capable but the conscious mind is not (without therapy)
I'd like to visit that therapist.
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Old 07-23-2013, 08:41 AM
 
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We are getting on up in years and DH goes off pretty quickly these days, so I don't have time to get there myself. It's been this way awhile and I have gotten to the point where I don't care anymore. He can get me off other ways, or I can handle it myself. It doesn't bother me.
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Old 07-23-2013, 08:49 AM
 
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She also told me about a colleague of hers who treats women who have either never had an orgasm, or rarely have orgasms, with hypnosis. In almost every case, the hypnotist can cause the patient to have multiple orgasms within minutes - proving that the body is capable but the conscious mind is not (without therapy)
If this hypnotist isn't making several million bucks a year I'm not buying it.
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Old 07-23-2013, 08:50 AM
 
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Saying that women don't generally climax from intercourse is different than a woman never climaxing, ever. Most women know how to take care of business on their own, and usually do. With another person, sometimes you're just on different wavelengths, but someone who's good in bed will make sure that his partner gets what she needs.
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Old 07-23-2013, 08:52 AM
 
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Personally, no. A big, big no.
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Old 07-23-2013, 08:56 AM
 
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If this hypnotist isn't making several million bucks a year I'm not buying it.

Its actually quite common.

Have none of you ladies been to the adult hypnotist show in Las Vegas? Not only is it hilarious, but its educational.

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Old 07-23-2013, 08:58 AM
 
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Its actually quite common.

Have none of you ladies been to the adult hypnotist show in Las Vegas? Not only is it hilarious, but its educational.

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We're too busy at the slots, restaurants, or the pool to see a show.
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