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Why is that after a man sleeps with you he doesn't want amythig to do with you anymore? This has happened to me more than once. The guy seems really interested, we flirt, we sleep together, then BAM he's gone. He even turns his phone off for the next few weeks. Do they think we want a relationship or something? I'm more along the lines of, hey, that was fun, let's do it again. Not, be my bf now! It's annoying when a guy thinks you're in love with him after sex that he feels the need to avoid you. Cause that's when I start to like someone more. So I just don't understand this whole sex thing and waiting it out. I love sex but I can't just be completely detached afterwards. And why does a guy lose respect for you if you put out too quick? What does respect have to do with it?
It's not all men, so please don't bunch us all together.
Many guys are opportunists. If a woman is flirty, and gives off a vibe that she's interested in sex (and I know that women can spot a guy looking for sex a mile away) they'll take her up on it. It's called a one night stand. They don't want a relationship, they don't want to take her home to Mom, and they don't want their friends to meet her. They'll act charming, they'll buy drinks (sometimes dinner) and they'll be gone forever after the act.
That might be the problem. Don't bring sex into the equation too early.
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And, a guy will lose respect for you if you go to bed too early, because he knows that if he can get a woman in bed easily, another guy CAN too.
Your problem is quite simple. Your having sex with males that can get casual sex fairly easily. That group is a very small percentage of men. I deduct this from your post because an average guy would be thrilled to have sex more than once with a hot, nice girl that's really good at sex. You need to start having sex with the rest of us. Those top shelf dudes are hard to control as you have found out.
some men are like dogs, just out to bury their bone in as many holes as they can
this is a dangerous game..
i do believe some women are better at identifying red flags-(early on) while some ignore, or refuse to see them...
decent guys wont and dont do this-
one woman i met years ago on a first date, looked right at me and asked for references- she said she has been burnt so many times, that she wants references. she said not your sister or mother, but a friends wife/girlfriend or better, a past girl friend..she said- if we may be sharing bodily fluids within a couple months, i wanna know who im sharing with...
then she gave me three numbers to call on her..
i said, doesnt this affect the natural chemistry of things- being a bit suspicious?? she said the guys that find this offensive, or wont do it-either have alot to hide, have shytty intentions,,,,and i just saved myself alot of time and possibly shame - being with a pig or user..
she soon after moved for another job,,,,
but i found that intriguing.. on her part
No offense but this doesn't happen to most people. If you are sleeping with guy after guy one time and then he dumps your and disappears, something is going on in your end.
Why is that after a man sleeps with you he doesn't want amythig to do with you anymore? This has happened to me more than once. The guy seems really interested, we flirt, we sleep together, then BAM he's gone. He even turns his phone off for the next few weeks. Do they think we want a relationship or something? I'm more along the lines of, hey, that was fun, let's do it again. Not, be my bf now! It's annoying when a guy thinks you're in love with him after sex that he feels the need to avoid you. Cause that's when I start to like someone more. So I just don't understand this whole sex thing and waiting it out. I love sex but I can't just be completely detached afterwards. And why does a guy lose respect for you if you put out too quick? What does respect have to do with it?
Works both ways. I've dumped men after sleeping with them, and that's usually because the sex was pretty bad.
Women who break a lots of hearts and are "popular" are sluts? LOL
Yeah I think he is confused.
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