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Old 10-27-2013, 05:29 PM
 
Location: Canada
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It's a third date, you haven't even kissed yet and you want to bring her to where she'd inevitably be meeting your parents and spending time in your bedroom? I vote no.
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:34 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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It's a third date, you haven't even kissed yet and you want to bring her to where she'd inevitably be meeting your parents and spending time in your bedroom? I vote no.
I agree that these are two things that are each a big deal by themselves, not to mention BOTH in the same night.

I can't imagine a segue from handing out candy to "sexy time" in the bedroom.

"Mom, here's the leftover Snickers. Um, we'll be in my room ...watching a movie."
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:36 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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It's a third date, you haven't even kissed yet and you want to bring her to where she'd inevitably be meeting your parents and spending time in your bedroom? I vote no.
yes the parent part bothers me, but If she likes me (and I think she does) I don't see how pulling out the wine bottle would do any damage.
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:37 PM
 
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I think it sounds fun if you feel the haunted house is too much. It's low key, and has options for cuddling.

But she will have to meet your parents, otherwise it would be weird and awkward. What if she has to pee?
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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I think it sounds fun if you feel the haunted house is too much. It's low key, and has options for cuddling.

But she will have to meet your parents, otherwise it would be weird and awkward. What if she has to pee?
it was a huge buzzkill to learn that she won't go near a haunted house haha

I need to get physical with her, I just don't know how...especially with parents around.
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:42 PM
 
Location: Canada
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it was a huge buzzkill to learn that she won't go near a haunted house haha

I need to get physical with her, I just don't know how...especially with parents around.
You haven't even kissed yet and you "need to get physical"? You're putting the cart before the horse here, and no, I really don't think any of this should be occurring while mommy and daddy are home.
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:43 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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You haven't even kissed yet and you "need to get physical"? You're putting the cart before the horse here, and no, I really don't think any of this should be occurring while mommy and daddy are home.
I would categorize kissing/holdinghands/cuddling as physical..and yes it needs to happen soon. I've been dumped before for moving too slow & it sucks.
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:44 PM
 
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Curious, How old are you? You mention the wine and you live with your parents. If she lives at home too I guess she wouldn't find it a turn off.
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:44 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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To clarify: I think the candy idea is a GREAT idea for a date.

I just think that how the whole night will progress depends on your set-up at home. Is your room just another bedroom upstairs, or do you have a separate entrance etc.?

Im also not anti-parent. I AM a parent, and I have two 17-year-old boys. I understand about the awkwardbess, but you have to know also that meeting your parents should not be a BAD thing. They are people too. Are your parents likely to hover, or will they say hello then scoot off to their own part of the house?

Also, your "need" to get physical sounds scary.

Like I said, it's a fun idea but there are a couple of weird areas to navigate.
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:46 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Curious, How old are you? You mention the wine and you live with your parents. If she lives at home too I guess she wouldn't find it a turn off.
I'm 23, she's 24, she has her own place

maybe I should just wait to she if she invites me over to her place?
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