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Old 10-27-2013, 05:50 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Also, your "need" to get physical sounds scary.
Kissing, cuddling, holding hands...physical. why do people always assume the worst? And I don't mean that I personally need to get physical. I'm just saying I don't want to let a romantic/sexually relationship slip by because I was afraid to make a move.

but I do admit I could of used better words
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:50 PM
 
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I'm 23, she's 24, she has her own place

maybe I should just wait to she if she invites me over to her place?
Honestly, I wouldn't if I were you.

I mean, it's not THAT lame, but in general women like to have fun. Take her out to do something fun. You guys are mid-20s. Most girls that age want to party a bit. Maybe if you were 38 and had a 7 year old daughter, it'd be a good idea.

I would also add that it doesn't matter how fun you are if she's not attracted to you. But if she is on a 3rd date with you, I would say there's at least a 50/50 chance she's physically attracted to you, and organizing a boring activity like that could turn her off.
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Honestly, I wouldn't if I were you.

I mean, it's not THAT lame, but in general women like to have fun. Take her out to do something fun. You guys are mid-20s. Most girls that age want to party a bit. Maybe if you were 38 and had a 7 year old daughter, it'd be a good idea.

I would also add that it doesn't matter how fun you are if she's not attracted to you. But if she is on a 3rd date with you, I would say there's at least a 50/50 chance she's physically attracted to you, and organizing a boring activity like that could turn her off.
ohh yeah she talked about going dancing..I should probably take her up on that and just leave the halloween thing alone.

dance clubs aren't really my thing..but who knows.
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Old 10-27-2013, 05:54 PM
 
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Forget the kids room idea then. Maybe she'll invite you over. And meeting your parents is ok though, it lets her know more about you.
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Old 10-27-2013, 06:09 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Kissing, cuddling, holding hands...physical. why do people always assume the worst? And I don't mean that I personally need to get physical. I'm just saying I don't want to let a romantic/sexually relationship slip by because I was afraid to make a move.

but I do admit I could of used better words
Ok, so you're saying you "need" to get to the next step, which you say is being physical.

Maybe hand out candy for a little while, then go somewhere you can walk around so you can hold hands, or go dancing after the candy thing. There are much easier ways to get physical when you're dancing.
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Old 10-27-2013, 06:19 PM
 
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it was a huge buzzkill to learn that she won't go near a haunted house haha

I need to get physical with her, I just don't know how...especially with parents around.

The bigger question for me would be does SHE have this same NEED to get physical so soon?

Probably should find that out before she meets the parents.
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Old 10-27-2013, 06:42 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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The bigger question for me would be does SHE have this same NEED to get physical so soon?

Probably should find that out before she meets the parents.
I don't know...how would I find this out? Would it be a bad move to ask her strait up? go dancing with her and gauge it off that?
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Old 10-27-2013, 06:45 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You want to ask the chick permission to kiss her?
Lol
You are adorable.
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Old 10-27-2013, 06:50 PM
 
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Ask her like this

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Old 10-27-2013, 06:51 PM
 
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I wouldn't...then again I'm 31 dating a 29 year old and have my own place, and we had sex like the first time we "dated" lol.

Honestly though hmm why not go out somewhere and end the night with going back to her place, just say something like you're not ready to call it a night at the end of the night and want to go back to her place to watch a movie/show or something?
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