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I guess these questions are primarily for women. Do you only kiss men (mouth to mouth) you are attracted too? Also, when a guy makes a move to kiss you, do you allow him to kiss you for the heck of it, or do you try to avoid the kiss. I guess my main question is that whenever a women allows a man to kiss her, that means she is interested...correct?
I am asking these questions because almost every single date I have ever been too, women always allowed me to kiss them however more times than not, nothing serious ever came from all the women I have kissed.
Usually if I kiss a guy, then it means I'm attracted to him. However, there are guys that I thought I was attracted to, but once we started making out, there was no spark, so it wouldn't go further.
Some women will kiss you even if they are not particularly attracted if...
1) You take them out on a date and show them a good time and are a nice guy. Some gals (very few I assume though) will give you a smooch just as kind of a courtesy. Kind of like a 'gratuity', "Thanks for the good time, pal" if you will. Find out later, they are not really attracted to you.
Personally, I do not. If I'm not attracted to a guy, I'm not going to kiss him. I don't even kiss people for fun nor when I'm drunk. If the guy tries to make a move to kiss me, I will back my head away to where he can't kiss me at all or I'll give him the cheek.
That being said, some girls are more liberal than I am and will give out kisses, but yeah, they could mean absolutely nothing. It can be confusing, I'll give you that. I think it's more of can you get her number, can you get her to go get coffee with you -- something that says she will see you again -- that is a clear sign of interest on her part, if she says yes.
I guess these questions are primarily for women. Do you only kiss men (mouth to mouth) you are attracted too? Also, when a guy makes a move to kiss you, do you allow him to kiss you for the heck of it, or do you try to avoid the kiss. I guess my main question is that whenever a women allows a man to kiss her, that means she is interested...correct?
I am asking these questions because almost every single date I have ever been too, women always allowed me to kiss them however more times than not, nothing serious ever came from all the women I have kissed.
Women do everything that we guys do. Yes they kiss, have sex with people they are not interested in for a variety of reasons.
One piece of advice, don't try to kiss a girl unless you know she wants to as well. Let her work on you . Women, just like us, don't like the easy prey.
If she turns her head then you go to the neck. Tenderly kiss her neck area while lightly breathing your warm breath around her ear. Then work your way around to her throat area and up to her chin and try her lips again again.
I've had women make out with me on a date then never talk to me again.
As for the whole "spark" thing: It's all in their head. Even if a woman really really likes a guy she'll sometimes find a way to take "little doubts" and use them as justification that there's no spark there and the chemistry has faded away.
I don't like to limit my options and if I'm attracted to and like a girl from a personality perspective and we have one kiss and there isn't a lot of spark, I'm willing to give it another shot on another date because I know sometimes it's just bad timing or awkwardness or whatever. A girl I dated in college for 2 years our first kiss was pretty bad. But we kept seeing each other and the next kiss was amazing.
Women just think it's supposed to all be there up front right away and that you're supposed to fall head over heels in love at first sight. If the sparks don't fly with first contact they chalk it up to "no chemistry" and move on. Why? Because any attractive woman has a dozen guys chasing her at any given time (if they don't they're either oblivious or they're unattractive). Even if she only has 10 guys chasing her, she can go to a bar/coffee shop/store/concert and she'll meet two more guys asking her out on the spot.
I wouldn't get too upset about this. I just remain diligent in keeping my options open. If they want to limit their opportunities to meet a great guy and develop something special with them then that's their personal decision. All you can do is do things right for yourself and good things will happen. You don't want a woman that can trash can you so easily because of a feeling she had at one moment, because I got news for you: women change different emotions and feelings like the wind. If you find one that makes rash decisions like dumping her guy because of how she felt one day then you don't want that girl anyway. There's plenty of level headed women out there.
Kissing is intimate and can tell much about a person in my opinion.
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. Women, just like us, don't like the easy prey.