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Old 12-06-2013, 07:16 PM
 
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I am curious if many men here have experience being physically assaulted by a woman they were dating? Did it change your relationship or your feelings towards her? Did you end the relationship because of it?

BTW - I have never hit a man.
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Old 12-06-2013, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Lol.......nice.
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Old 12-06-2013, 07:46 PM
 
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a girlfriend slapped me once in a semi joking manner with a touch of maliciousness behind it, but it was hard enough that I immediately kicked her out of my apartment. Kind of instinctual on my part, if she was a guy I'd stomp her into the ground, but since she's a woman I just made her leave, lol. We were fine overall though, I just was pissed for a little bit.

This same girlfriend tried kicking one of my friends in the cojones, we both have spent a bunch of time in a Krav Maga gym, so he saw it coming and put his leg in the way. She ended up limping away in shame, haha. Not going out with her anymore.
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Old 12-06-2013, 07:53 PM
 
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I had a girl pour a water on me once qt a bar for almost no reason so I poured my crown and coke on her. She attacked me but I moved through the crowd and she got kicked out lol.

Other than that I got nothing. I know when to dump girls before it gets that far.

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Old 12-06-2013, 07:53 PM
 
Location: FL
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Yes, my first live in gf hit me over the head with a glass candy jar. The one after that threw some hot coffee on me. I didn't stick around very long after that with either of them. There both miserable, old, lonely wenches now.
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Old 12-06-2013, 08:10 PM
 
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Oh sure.

I'm sure it was something 'I' did though.

At least that's what she threatened me to tell everyone.
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Old 12-06-2013, 08:28 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Sure, women can be violent (they throw things, but poor aim), but in general the ones I've known have been more emotionally abusive than physically.

I dealt with some stupid **** in my early 20s,. I saw one just got arrested, too bad, she was hot, well, I mean, haha, she was hot. 15 years ago.
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Old 12-06-2013, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Northeast
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Yes i have..My ex wife was Bi-polar and physically assaulted me a few times. She took my Wahl razor and threw it at my head
from like 10 feet away and just missed me..put a large hole in the wall though.
She never stayed on her meds and after a couple of years i was outta there and we divorced. Bi-polar is a nasty disease and one must stay on meds for months to see if there working..
I still talk to her about a few times a year as i wish her no ill will, it is what it is. Mental illness has no bounds..
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Old 12-06-2013, 09:36 PM
 
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Where on earth do you guys meet those crazy women? In all my 26 years, I have never seen a woman being that cruel enough to go for a groin kick for no reason. I must be either in a well-brought up environment or not too many violent ones here.
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Old 12-06-2013, 09:37 PM
 
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She tried to punch me but I was able to parry the punch and do an Arm Bar Takedown (without breaking anything) and stun her. I then removed myself from the situation while she was stunned on the ground before it could escalate further.

No matter what kind of training or physical superiority you might think you have, you should never underestimate an opponent. There are no rules. She could have had a knife or a gun for all I knew or had other people with her looking for a fight. You also don't know what their motivations are or what kind of drugs they could be on.

There are 110lb women out there who can inflict serious injury or death on someone much larger than them, particularly if the larger person makes a mistake or goes easy.
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