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Now this is starting to all sound fake. You are broke after buying a plane ticket from London to NYC yet you were holding fundraisers in the apartment for the future Mayor? Sell your thousands in property and get yourself a studio.
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Originally Posted by Harlem resident
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Her boyfriend is posting on another thread, famous male model. Complaining about the poor.
He is not a model. I came to this site under recommendation of a friend to seek help but clearly all of you find it a joke. I wouldn't wish whAt I'm going through on my worst enemy. I hope it never happens to any of you. I was happier in London when I had a stable job and my own rental. Now I'm going through hell. Support is something New Yorkers are incapable of. I'm shocked the two of you have high recommendations from posters.
He is not a model. I came to this site under recommendation of a friend to seek help but clearly all of you find it a joke. I wouldn't wish whAt I'm going through on my worst enemy. I hope it never happens to any of you. I was happier in London when I had a stable job and my own rental. Now I'm going through hell. Support is something New Yorkers are incapable of. I'm shocked the two of you have high recommendations from posters.
Maybe you should return to London.
And I'm not saying that to be mean. If your family's in London and you previously had a job and your own place, is there any reason why you must be in NYC?
And also, there is nothing any of us can do here in regards to your boyfriend. He kicked you out. If he is bipolar, is it wise to try to sue your way back into his apartment? What if he gets violent? Unless you can work things out with him I'd say don't bother to go back.
And I'm not saying that to be mean. If your family's in London and you previously had a job and your own place, is there any reason why you must be in NYC?
And also, there is nothing any of us can do here in regards to your boyfriend. He kicked you out. If he is bipolar, is it wise to try to sue your way back into his apartment? What if he gets violent? Unless you can work things out with him I'd say don't bother to go back.
Thank you for your kind words. I'm originally from here and would like to stay in the city I love. Plus I am starting to work here at a company I have wanted to work for for some time in January so I hope to be able to get back on my feet then. In terms of the guy - we have been through rough patches before and I hope we could resolve things when he gets back on his medication. I know it's not necessarily a good idea but I still have hope. But until he stops acting like a child and speaks to me nothing can be resolved and I won't have closure. I'm caught in a crazy place. This is not how I want to end nine years. He is almost 35, how is this rational behavior.
Thank you for your kind words. I'm originally from here and would like to stay in the city I love. Plus I am starting to work here at a company I have wanted to work for for some time in January so I hope to be able to get back on my feet then. In terms of the guy - we have been through rough patches before and I hope we could resolve things when he gets back on his medication. I know it's not necessarily a good idea but I still have hope. But until he stops acting like a child and speaks to me nothing can be resolved and I won't have closure. I'm caught in a crazy place. This is not how I want to end nine years. He is almost 35, how is this rational behavior.
Well, if he calms down and is willing, you might want to see if he'll do couples counseling. It may take more than medication to help.
You may also insist on greater safeguards such as your name on the lease, your name on the bills, or some sort of written agreement between the two of you.
Technically, if you can prove to the cops you have residence there, they could force him to give you the keys or arrest him for an illegal lockout. You'll need proof that you receive your MAIL there. Call the cops, tell them you've been locked out and show whatever PROOF you have.
Well, if he calms down and is willing, you might want to see if he'll do couples counseling. It may take more than medication to help.
You may also insist on greater safeguards such as your name on the lease, your name on the bills, or some sort of written agreement between the two of you.
Technically, if you can prove to the cops you have residence there, they could force him to give you the keys or arrest him for an illegal lockout. You'll need proof that you receive your MAIL there. Call the cops, tell them you've been locked out and show whatever PROOF you have.
Would emailed receipts and things from amazon or other such companies work? I should have received my work contract there too but he has not given me the hard copy. I assume it's still in the apartment... The people that packed my things didn't include any paperwork or post... But I still have the key to the mailbox so can check that over the next few days
The only lock he changed was to the front door. I still have access to the building and I know his neighbours and coop board members that have previously signed and given me packages addressed to me
Thank you for your kind words. I'm originally from here and would like to stay in the city I love. Plus I am starting to work here at a company I have wanted to work for for some time in January so I hope to be able to get back on my feet then. In terms of the guy - we have been through rough patches before and I hope we could resolve things when he gets back on his medication. I know it's not necessarily a good idea but I still have hope. But until he stops acting like a child and speaks to me nothing can be resolved and I won't have closure. I'm caught in a crazy place. This is not how I want to end nine years. He is almost 35, how is this rational behavior.
This Jay want to apologize for the poor behavior of that Jay. I too will get back on my medication tonight.
Er..... I meant I hope the Jay you know will gets back on medication! I sincerely hope you guys will have
a happy ending.
It doesn't help that he is bipolar and currently in a manic state without treatment. But I understand he had no legal right to throw me out like that on a whim
Why do some women put up with this nonsense on purpose?
As soon as a guy tells me he has anything bordering on mentally unfit, I'm not interested. I already know they will be drama, drama, drama.
I really hope you're able to get your stuff back. He's a nut, but you already knew that.
So he left the place for the foreseeable future? Why not get the super, who knows you live there, to let you in? And just stay there? Even if its not long term, you just need a bridge until you start earning income. Any way to start your job earlier?
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